thanks for the input..its quite funny sometimes, thinking that to be more successful you finally need to go back to who you are-no games; makes you wonder whats the point of the whole game 'mindset'.

As time goes by i find the whole 'game' thing is only there to show a more 'attractive' way to put yourself out there, but only up to the point where things are 'on'..after that it should be you&yourself