Now we are talking about siestas, hahaha.

You are right, though. Internet chat is not 'real life' so I can come across as the funniest, most witty person ever on the internet but come across completely differently in reality. My entire 'game' at the moment is based on this and that needs to change.

If she comes round, she's clearly attracted to the person she has been chatting to online. If, like I say, that person isn't the same as the person she thinks, then of course there'll be no spark.

I've done a lot of reflecting... it's time now to work on my actual personable abilities, like conversation. Was listening to some cool PUA stuff earlier. I've managed to get away with what I've got away with thus far, purely by luck / being attractive / both being drunk. However I've identified a HUGE deficiency in how I come across so it's time to address it. More human contact, less internet bullshit.

I'm currently looking at

- how to escalate
- kino
- conversation, flirting
- body language

Most importantly, I'm getting some human practice in.

Does anyone have anything else they could recommend? Any particular PUAs?

Thanks!