for texting its all cool man, but for facebook messages its different. When you're saying bye its ok to put kisses, just with every message it'll make it look like you're trying too hard. Though if you stop using kisses now she'll notice and if you've f-closed her anyway then its all fine so carry on. What I try to do with kisses, as with most things, is try to give them value by being sparing. So like, when I first start texting a girl its like 1 kiss, and when she says something i like i'll put more. With instant messaging things though I think the only time you should put kisses is when its the end of a convo(cos its kinda the 'done' thing) or when she says something that really impresses you. In reality it doesnt make much difference but every little helps lol

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