Im fairly new to Pua so here is basicly me naturally plus a little i read on fb game. any pointers are appreciated... I've known this person a while but only started flirting recently. she seems interested but a cock tease... im 18 shes 25 and i would say HB8.5 here is the convo so far...

She opened me with a poke;



Me: Oi who you think you are poking me! x
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Her: Ha! I shall poke you if and when I like young man! x
40 minutes ago




Me: Hmmm... Thats rude did your parents not teach you manners? :P x
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Her: Yes they said if people poke you - smack them! But since I can't do that until I see you - I'll just have to poke you back! x
29 minutes ago




Me: Ahhh we have a feisty one here! Do you think you can take me like?! Bring it! x
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Her: Course I can little boy - I'd kick your ass. Ask Scott or Tony on nights; they know! Rest of team left since they missed me so much! x
15 minutes ago




Me: Haha little boy? Hang on a second... Last time i checked you where how tall? :P Plus I'm saying they left because they where finally free from you bullying them into being your friends! x
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Her: HA! The cheek of it! I inspired them to leave and they just missed me too much more like! Size is not everything Dave, it's what you can do with it - I'm sure you have heard that line before?!!!!! But in this instance it's true (not always mind so you still need to worry about your 'size!') I might not be the biggest, but I use my size to great effect and would kick your ass any day of the week! x
7 minutes ago



Me: Oh thats why they put their notice in before you actually left? haha :P

And as for size you'd love to think size didn't matter (In the me kicking your ass sense...) But unfortunately you lack it

oh and your comment was below the belt! literally... however its okay because I'm totally comfortable with my 'size' :P x
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she just replied as I'm typing this:

Her: Keep telling yourself that Little Dave! I'm off to sleep - sort a night in soon, but give me warning please so I haven't already eaten! Night hun xx





I'd say thats gonna be a full close as she's basically said in the last one sort out a night in for pizza and booze but give her notice as i asked her over a couple of nights ago and she had eaten and it was getting late...

So what can i improve? Is this good or should i find a new approach? cheers for help in advance.

Much Love

.db x.

Db, that's cool mate. Like reading your post. There are always things to improve, but you handle her quite well without sounding needy. Much been written on facebook & online sarging. Do a search on 'online sarging' on this forum. I've written a thread about my experience. Would hv posted the links for you but I'm at work on my phone.

Next move is to do just that arrange a "night in". And don't leave it too long. Maybe one night this week or the coming weekend.

Welcome to the forum & nice to see newcomer appreciating the forum, thanks for the donation.

cheers bud and np with the donation i like this forum even tho I'm totally new i can tell I'm here for the long run

I'll update this on where it leads :P

.db x.

Hey man, just small tips:
Avoid the kisses and anything childish like smilies. I only every use smilies if I say something that can be taken in the wrong way, then I'll wait a few seconds, then put a wink. I guess I use them in the same way I would if I had a cheeky grin in person, just so she knows you were only messin.
But you played that quite well. Just don't try too hard to arrange a meeting, make an offer and make it no big deal. If she flakes then show her some disinterest and wait for her to make some effort before you try again. There's quite a few posts on the forum about that kinda stuff. Good luck bud

okay then cheers flake

i will try loosing the kisses for a while then but i dunno... ill give it a try but its something thats sorta intergrated with my personality... for example at the bottom of every post "db x" also i put kisses on texts and posts to lads... its sorta like a facebook fashion statement round here... but okay ill drop them from texts and posts for a while see what happens...

one more point on that topic... how about on a girl you have f-closed and want to continue seeing? shall i leave the x's on the end? i guess they might feel used if i take them off them at this stage...


cheers for advice lads



.db ?.

No of kisses have been discussed before No of Kisses. The general consensus it doesnt make a sausage of a different....!
Personally, it depends on who you texting/messaging. As for the girl you f-closed, it doesnt matter you have 1 X or 10 X's...she is probably interested how good you were under the sack (LOL) and you as a person!!

for texting its all cool man, but for facebook messages its different. When you're saying bye its ok to put kisses, just with every message it'll make it look like you're trying too hard. Though if you stop using kisses now she'll notice and if you've f-closed her anyway then its all fine so carry on. What I try to do with kisses, as with most things, is try to give them value by being sparing. So like, when I first start texting a girl its like 1 kiss, and when she says something i like i'll put more. With instant messaging things though I think the only time you should put kisses is when its the end of a convo(cos its kinda the 'done' thing) or when she says something that really impresses you. In reality it doesnt make much difference but every little helps lol

x

Okay cool... i think i took this abit too literal... they where wall posts and not instant messages btw... which is sorta between the two... but I've stopped with them now...

WORD OF ADVICE TO ANYONE WHO READ THIS
Dont take them off people you have f-closed... Pisses them right fucking off.. altho i suppose it aroused more emotions that pretty much anything i could have said lmao... I made it smooth tho after she declared she was pissed at the idea i told her i was trying to add value to them and upon considering that she did deserve them and gave her them back...

i added that she should feel proud to have them also... and made sure not to say sorry for taking them in the first place... - figured this would keep my alpha status

Much love
.db x.

pretty honest of you man so well played. Yeah wall post's are alright I guess, depends how quickly she replies if I was to put kisses. At least this shows that girls do notice

yeah to be honest i think she appreciates and takes the fact i told her she deserves them seriously and that they have serious value to her now...

oh and I'm currently having fun with this other girl that i took them off that also asked where they gone... i told this one she wasnt worthy and that she would "have to work for them"

here's the last couple of messages... its been a fun convo...

Amy: I don't care about you - but I care about other people that might be reading this. Although they have probs got bored of your rudeness to me by now and stopped reading anyway!
36 minutes ago

Dave: Haha! :P You love my attention... Don't deny it or 'everyone reading' will know your a LIAR!! :P
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Amy: Dave...I love you. Always have, always will. Oh - you're right, I am a LIAR!!!!
18 minutes ago

Dave: Haha... Yeah i liked that... :P Okay just this once coz you 'deserve' it, hope you jumping for joy like a dog who just got treats!! x
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Amy: Hahaha!!! Thanks for that! Made my night! I can go to sleep with a smile on my face and happiness running through my mind not hate and ways to kill you anymore! x
3 minutes ago

Dave: Haha oh and now its gone! (shouldn't want to kill me or there will be no more kisses for Amy!)