I just saw this video, and thought it was very interesting.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...&v=T_lh5fR4DMA


Does anyone else think its very interesting?

From my own experience, I would've answered "yes". But I know where the guys are coming from. And clearly the women know it to. I think women enjoying have a guy-friend who they know fancies them - fuels their ego, gives them value etc. Those needy fucking lizards! Haha!

I think men and women 'can' be friends (for a while). But IMO one party always wants more from the other than the other is willing to give...

I mean it obviously isn't a particularly scientific experiment. The video may well have been, and is likely to have been, edited to give a certain impression.

But perhaps there is a kernel of truth there somewhere, that says most guys ultimately want to sleep with most girls, and most girls probably know this already.

I have to say under most circumstances, no they can't.

But, there is at least one in my life. I'm pretty much best friends with a girl, she's 5-6 years older than me, and we're more like brother & sister. Talk all the time, go out together to bars & scope out dates, etc. etc.

and its funny, because we've both been over this conversation before. Neither of us are into the other, but we both admit that there's a certain amount of jealousy from the other when she's with a guy, or I'm with a girl.

So, I guess if you weren't really open and clear with this other person, it wouldn't work? I'm 'friends' with other girls... but yes, there's always sexual tension involved between both parties. And it's lots of fun

It's hard to say. I've been friends with several girls in the past who, even if they offered, I wouldn't have shagged them. Similarly, it's been ages since I befriended a girl simply because I wanted to shag her.

Then again, most of the girls I've been friends with in the past few years I would shag if it was on the table. Just because they're fit. It's hard to be friends with a fit girl and not shag her if the opportunity comes up. As a chap I'm just not designed to turn down sex with a fit girl.

Amen to that brother!

Yep agreed its hard for a guy just to be friends with girls especially when hot,im friends with a few girls and i have/would lay them if i could!!
Nice video man never thought about stuff like that till i watched it.
Its the way were programmed right?!

all my female friends ive had sex with
and usually when we catch up, somtimes once a year, or 2 years it includes having sex but thats just a biproduct of the night, its not the point of catching up.

so for me these days i cant seperate the sex from friendship if they are female