Hiya guys,
This is my first article so lemmi know what you think
Last night I was chatting up a chick, I'd already built attraction and it was time I moved onto the comfort phase, and in doing so I discovered a great routine. We were talking about dreams and I realised there is a good chance you will have had similar dreams to your target. Example:
The Teeth Falling Out Dream:
We were talking about wierd dreams and so I mentioned this one(Labeling it wierd when it is a very common dream makes it appear you have a deep connection). I then explained that the dream meant that you care about how others think of you and how you appear to other people. This is a kind of negging(You are telling her she's self-conscious but who isn't?) but it also establishes a strong connection.
There are lots of dreams people have in common which can be used to this effect and if you mention a dream you don't have in common then its no big deal, just make sure you can make it interesting. Examples of Dreams:
Falling(probably the most common dream as it often coincides with falling out of bed and most people have done that) - You can suggest this dream means there needs to be a change in their life(i.e. you, the
PUA ).
Being Chased(Often you cannot run/travel as fast as you normally could and being caught becomes inevitable) - You can say this is because they are avoiding confrontation or is not dealing with a problem(Luckily for her you are the solution to these problems!)
Being Cheated On - This one is not as useful in the field seeing as if they are having this dream they are taken, however you could say "I was having this dream where my girlfriend at the time cheated on me, and a week later she did" - This is risky as it DLV(you were cheated on) so you'll have to redeem yourself somehow(Good opportunity to establish yourself as someone who is commited and caring etc.)
Remember, without building adequate attraction this routine can place you firmly in 'friendship zone' and thats pretty much Game Over(Keep being funny and interesting - keep flirting!).
Some other things you can try is explaining why dreams are important and what they can say about people.You can manipulate this into saying you and the target are similar deep down and this of course builds comfort and creates a connection. Let me know how this routine helps you guys, and how you can vary it and make it more effective.
Cheers guys,
Flake.