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Default P&T's game final Instalment pointers - 21-05-2011, 05:31 PM

Because a few guys got something out of my last post on Bradocks material I’m posting a final and condensed instalment. If you want the full works it can be downloaded from a well known torrent site.

His phone and text game is top class, we have to accept these mediums as unavoidable evils, they have to be mastered if you want turn numbers into dates. You can have the tightest game ever and still blow it on the P&T game. Now that I’ve finally got my hands on Keiza ‘phone and text game’ I can see that the little whore is also guilt of plagiarising Braddock’s work, further proof if it was needed, that it’s shit hot material.

Its cut and paste time courtesy of Braddock

What should you do if a woman does not call you back?

Some women are just busy, distracted or have strange ideas about the appropriateness of calling men. They may even be deliberately screening for men who are persistent. You never know what is going on in her head. However, follow the rules here and do not seem needy by calling or texting more than once a day. If you call twice in one day, try calling her in 2 days. You do not want to come across as needy under any circumstances. Neediness causes death in attraction.

It is also important to adopt a solid frame, to yourself, that she is just a flaky woman and that it is kind of cute. Do not let it play in your mind that she might not actually be interested in you. This is an unproductive thought.
If she does not call back, don’t acknowledge it. Do not ever say “this is the last time I’m calling” or “I’m calling to leave you another mes¬sage”. If you do get her on the phone, do not bring up the subject of your previous calls/texts as this will signal to her that you have been thinking about it a lot, which will most likely lower your value. If she doesn’t call back, simply leave it a couple of days and then try calling again.

There are a number of practical steps that you can take to re-ignite contact:

Method of contact – Switching the method of contact can encourage a response. Low investment text messages can work well here. You can also try calling from a different number, such as your work phone or landline. Do not block your phone number when you call her. Many girls will not answer a call from a withheld number, so you may encourage her not to answer.

Time of day – Many girls are genuinely busy so try varying the time of day when you call – morning, afternoon, evening and night. If you are getting nowhere try call¬ing her after midnight. You will probably wake her up, so make sure you can be immediately entertaining from the second she answers. Start with a high-energy, funny, short routine and do not even introduce yourself.

Calling after Midnight. I tried this in the early days three or four times after coming back from the pub and on every occasion despite my feeling it would never work it did surprising well, the second time we even started discussing me getting in a taxi and going to see her now see was awake. Obviously, have some respect, don’t call monday night at 1am.

What to do if investment is very low?

Low investment can happen for many reasons. Your value can come and go quickly and is often more dependent on her circumstances than your ‘game’. This is why cold approach can be challenging.

It is important to understand that low investment women will do none of the work for you. If you do not build attraction or comfort with them when you first meet, then you can count on them putting in very little effort to help you bridge that gap in the near future.

Because there are so many factors that cause low investment, it is not worth you spending much time and mental energy analyzing why.
The following are strategies for dealing with low investment:

Do not chase. Oftentimes, when guys feel a girl slipping through their fingers, they make the fatal mistake of trying to reel her back by texting more and/or longer texts. Do not ever text from the frame: “I need to correct my mistake.” This does not cause her to become more attracted to you. In fact, the opposite is actually true – your neediness causes her to become less attracted to you.

If you feel that you are beginning to trigger negative responses from her, then you must gain control of your emotions. Force yourself to listen to your logical mind and not allow your emotions to dictate your actions. Even though your brain is telling you to send her something amazingly funny or interesting, realize that there is no perfect line. Anything you send in a situation where you have lost Tempo will only set you back even further. (Note that this rule does not apply to already established relationships).

Stop the bleeding. It’s time to stop the bleeding and stop losing value. How? Simply stop communicating with her for a while. This action will most likely give you a clean slate for later. If it was a minor mistake that caused the loss in Tempo or low investment, than simply stop texting her for a day or two and give her time to forget about it. Then send her something light and amusing in a few days and pretend like it never happened.

Above all, avoid texting her to ask if you have messed up. This creates a lot of social pressure, makes you look needy and any answer you get will not likely give you any genuine feedback. Apologizing for assumed mistakes lowers your value significantly so be extremely careful about this. Also, trying to be overly funny or saying “just kidding” incessantly is emotional overreaching and should be avoided at all costs.

Time heals all. You want to use time to allow any negative associations that were developing to wash away. To determine how much time you need to leave between interactions, ask yourself what caused the shift in attitude. If it was a minor infraction and you caught the mistake early enough, than you will need less time before you reinitiate. If it was a major infraction while investment was already low, then you will need a fair amount of time.


What if she is sending mixed signals? i.e. ‘She flirts but I don’t know where I stand!’

Here are some useful points and strategies that are relevant when she is sending mixed signals:

Mirror her level of investment and do not to exceed them, as this will seem needy.
Deliberately send mixed signals, while still pushing for a meet up.
Make sure you are short and succinct, while still flirty.
Avoid over reaching with too much humor or sending extremely long text messages. Your texts should mirror hers in length and playfulness. Although it is difficult to get this exactly right as you cannot physically see her thoughts or feelings, it is ok to be slightly off. Just ensure that you are not a lot more playful or humorous than she is.

She may set you up for failure by sending you a fake indication of interest. This is usually a test of the congruence of your frame. If you flinch and take the bait, then it’s a major setback. For example, she may directly or indirectly imply that she has strong feelings towards you or misses you. If this is a major jump in tone and out of sync with her other texts, then it is safe to assume that you are being baited. Hold your frame and continue to push for a meet while being short, succinct and still flirty.

You are now leaving the cut and paste zone

If you’re onto a winner with text game stop fucking about and ring her, arrange a date. If you’re playing a blinder with text game the only way it can go is down and if you’re still texting after several weeks thinking this is going well, you’ve blown it. You also need to be raising the bar by baiting the fuck out of her with more and more sexually charged stuff.

When you’re getting one word answers and she’s showing no interest in texting you also need to ring her and stop fucking about because at this point you’ve nothing to lose


Don’t think about rejection shouldn’t even enter your head, don’t think about it, just do it, no hesitations. Talk to her.

It’s the only way to get good



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Default 21-05-2011, 06:03 PM

Love Systems, Ultimate Guide to Sex and Phone Game, Braddock.

The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game »The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game

Cite proper sources if you actually thought something was valuable. While you might not pay for things other people do. If you take material from sources that charge for things you WANT people to pay for things even if you don't, that material would not exist if other people do not pay for it. If you think it's valuable enough to share with others then at least give the original author the opportunity to gain proper exposure for the source of it. It's the least you can do.

/not endorsing Love Systems in any way whatsoever.
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Default 21-05-2011, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by RLAJay View Post
Love Systems, Ultimate Guide to Sex and Phone Game, Braddock.

The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game »The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game

Cite proper sources if you actually thought something was valuable. While you might not pay for things other people do. If you take material from sources that charge for things you WANT people to pay for things even if you don't, that material would not exist if other people do not pay for it. If you think it's valuable enough to share with others then at least give the original author the opportunity to gain proper exposure for the source of it. It's the least you can do.

/not endorsing Love Systems in any way whatsoever.
A very compelling speech on anti-piracy, fair enough everyone is entilted to a view.

$100 for a 150 page book sounds very reasonable to me, whats that work out a page? Neil is missing a trick here by only charging £4.99 for his book.

You have now provided a link to allow people to pay for it thanks Jay


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Default 21-05-2011, 06:37 PM

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A very compelling speech on anti-piracy, fair enough everyone is entilted to a view.

$100 for a 150 page book sounds very reasonable to me, whats that work out a page? Neil is missing a trick here by only charging £4.99 for his book.

You have now provided a link to allow people to pay for it thanks Jay
I don't disagree with you at all, it's retardedly priced. The thing is though is that if something comes from a source that seeks to earn money and you believe it's valuable enough to endorse and share then you want them to make money. If they don't, they don't produce it.

This is the issue with everyone saying they're against the commercial side of the industry. If the none of these companies made any money they wouldn't exist and without that where would ANYONE here be?

They're extortionately priced, I agree, but you don't want them to disappear if you use them. If you like something then you're a fool for not spreading it and offering them the opportunity to make money from those people that will pay for it, they'll never make anything else you might like otherwise.
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Default 21-05-2011, 07:00 PM

Without getting into the whole music/film industry piracy thing the PUA industry is perverse and anyone in it is just out to make as much money as possible before it turns to shit. The same thing happened in the 70’s/80’s with self development.

People like Tyler who charge silly money for re-packaged self development courses and trying to distance themselves from PUA are not exempt, he like many others are simply taking the piss, riding a basic principle that sells. Guys wanting to be successful with women.

Look I cans see why you would get uppity if you also sell on line courses, I’m not trying to deprive anyone from making a buck or two but when you start taking the piss people are going to look for alternatives the music/film industry has been doing it for years and now it’s come back to bite them on the ass.

I do have one question why do you only sell online courses surly you’d make more money selling one to ones in the field or is field work not you’re skill set?

Anyway, I’m away to get hammered I look forward to reading your reply half cut.


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Default 22-05-2011, 12:27 AM

Its important that I don’t promote piracy and acknowledge rightful ownership of content I reproduce so to make amends...

Love sytems is owned by Braddock.
It is also owned by Love Systems Corp.
Braddock is owned by USA.
The USA own much of the oil in Iraq.
Black ops is owned by me (and a few other million people in the world)
Magic Bullets from Lovesystems is also great and dips into the psychology of nailing chicks
If anyone wants it, email me and send me $197 and I’ll make sure I forward your payment to Braddock and the guys at Love Systems.
Lock, stock and Two Smoking Barrels is a British film.
Jay has no sense of humour
I’ve just bought Lego star Wars Clone Wars like a knob, but it’s fucking great half cut.
I won £50 on Germany in Eurovision last year.
I lost £45 on Germany in the world Cup
I won £120 on Spain in the world Cup
LEGO is from Denmark.
Ade Edmonson is from Bedford.
Vinnie Jones played for Wales.
This is all I could manage while I can still focus and type, fuck I’m pissed.


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