Those of you that know my posts will know I’m constantly experimenting with PU, I’ve recently read some interesting material on this so got myself a sim card reader and recovered some of my deleted numbers. Last week I sent out a few texts to girls that flaked on me and I’ve now got a few positive responses and a date set up for this evening.

I know this is going to generate disagreement but it seems deleting numbers is a mistake because she didn’t reply or communication ceased. Unless she flat out said don’t text me/call me the number is worth keeping.

Women may come in and out of our lives weeks, months even years later. So this approach seems reasonable if done right. If she’s just broke up with her boyfriend a well timed text will get you back in the game.

After communication stops leave her alone, then texting her weeks or months later out of the blue if she doesn’t bite delete her for good, it costs very little effort and it might yield a completely different response.

Ways of doing it. The key is non-needy and humour in the form of a statements, questions, inside jokes, intrigue, or plain silly. Some (poor) canned examples to give you ideas.

You should come over later for pizza and sex
Her: Haha...I don’t think so
What, you don’t like pizza?

I met someone who said they knew you today.

Guess what?

We need to talk I’m pretty sure I’m pregnant.

Are we broken up for good? You don’t write you never call, the kids are worried sick and the rent was due 7 days ago!

I see no problem with doing this its not needy your typical AFC will text ‘I miss you so much’, ‘why did you stop contact’ etc after pathetic etc.

As ever my disclaimer is you do what the fuck you want, I’m sharing something that has clearly worked for me if you think its goes against the grain then guess what?

Knave good post, this is somthing thats whirled round my head a lot recently and i dont know the right answer--i think ultimately there is no right answer.

Me and Phil had a conversation when we were out about you are either a chaser or being chased by a girl.
I am a chaser - it works it gets me laid a lot BUT it doesnt get them obsessed falling in love with me, often i`ll chase, hook up with them, nail them and after a couple of occasions if i do like them i`ll get the 'theres no chemistry' speech and its the end.

From the chased point of view --the girls that are chasing you are the ones that get obsessed and oneitis over you, they want to be your girlfriend.

The Chased guys will delete a chicks number ruthlessly if they dont txt back now the risk is that they lose that girl forever-- but as long as you are out there racking numbers in abundance you will still have enough girls chasing you to keep you occupied
also deleting a chicks number actually protects YOU it stops you feeling like a twat and getting obsessed with a chick-- its a MAN power moment.

so whats the answer i dont know but im hoping somone else can jump in with some words

You see now we are back into the chaser or being chased which belongs on another post entirely and definitely worth discussing.

This resurrecting old numbers is mainly down to my own experience there have been several girls that I would genuinely stop all this PUA fooling about business for but have been unable to hook them. Keeping their number and hitting them last chance saloon reeks of oneitis agreed but if the result is different which it conceivable could be for countless reasons it justifies the means in my opinion.

I suppose the flipside to this psychology is by deleting the number you’re removing any temptation to contact her again, thus achieving closure, so you can effectively move on.

Back to the chasing girl thing, a girl who believes she is doing the chasing is so much more stronger than the other way around, this is not natural for her and I’ve seen girls develop their own female equivalent of oneitis, or ‘the one’ as I'll call it. It’s not so easy to engineer (I'm going to be posting methods I use to flip there realities and to get them chasing) even when you know what you’re doing and it does require a certain ruthlessness and huge risks in losing her, plus ethically some will vomit.

ok Knave tell me this-- any girls who you have met through resurecting them after they were first flaking on you or generally not interested--have you ever flipped them into them wanting you as a boyfriend (beyond fucking them) i think this is possible dont get me wrong but as a percentage numbers game i think its probably a low %

in my experience the high % of girls that are literally throwing themselves at you with oneitis are ones that you a)hooked up with and binned off yourself within a short period of time and potentially chose not to ahve sex with them or b)ones that saw you with a massive amount of value initially in field and YOU didnt follow them up.

Okay first off I’ve only started doing it so ask me next week but yes the percentages will be low, I know this already but that doesn’t matter I’m only after a select few anyway. Sure you could do a mass texting and increases the numbers if that’s your game.

Turning a flaker into a nymph who chases you down the street like a rabid animal requires many factors some of which you need to accept are out of your control so in answer to that question, the answer is no I don’t believe it’s possible.

I’m doing a post attached to this on flaking, so will post within the hour.

I totally see the force in deleting numbers if you are in danger of getting oneitis or chasing some chick and embarrasing yourself (Man Powerment - nice expression).

BUT there are two excellent reasons not to delete:

1. as discussed above sometimes a chick comes back from the dead and its well worth it - I recently had a girl I hadn't seen in 2 years chase me down with a couple of texts we went out once and then she came over to mine and it was one of the wildest nights I've ever had, she plainly wanted to mess about and have some fun and - lucky me - I was the guy she wanted to do it with;

2. I want to know who is calling/texting. By deleting the chick's number you don't know who it is if she calls a week later.

Women respond to scarcity. Its why they buy shit they don't need just because it was on special offer, why they pay more than shop prices for stuff on ebay, why they get obsessed about having a particular house, why carpet and sofa shops have perpetual this-weekend-only 50% off sales.

To be honest I don't want hundreds of girls on my phone who never reply to me. Fuck it delete them.

Example, is sex with zombies distinct from necrophilia?