Hey guys,

I need a hand with this one! Theres a new girl a work, she's an 8 with a 9 body! But she's romanian and her English isn't great, how can I DHV non verbally? And how can eventually meet her out of work?

Cheers, Bags

Ooops, didn't realise this wasn't for asking questions!

Whip it out.

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"Civilise the mind, make savage the body"

Love the quote, but im still kinda stuck

See, one minute I'm telling you to whip it out, next minute you're winking at me. This is how it starts you know.

So difficult to say without a feel for the people and the place. Are you sure you want to be hitting on someone at your place of work by the way? What's a Romanian bird doing in the merchant navy?

Anyway, if you must, generalised advice would be to drop the idea of a magic DHV and focus on being the social centre of the workplace, which has value in and of itself. Then, reframe the obstacle as a benefit: learn a few basic phrases in Romanian, to instigate an ongoing playful little teacher (her)/student (you) thing between you. Just say something casually to her in Romanian one day, but get some of it intentionally wrong in such a way that the translation will be funny to her, so she can correct and teach you. Get something playful going like this. Get it?

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Cocky Funny, I see you like David De'Angelo.....

She's a massage girl onboard the ship. And don't worry I haven't done any magic with her, i didn't think it would be appropriate and effective. I'm not spending to long onboard this ship so i'm not too bothered about being with someone in the workplace.

Thanks for the advice, really useful and soo simple! I literally kicked myself when I read it, why could I not think of that! I was thinking like an AFC!

cheers
Bags

No mate you're projecting there, people are allowed to just have a laugh without it being labelled as DeAngelo method you know.

Masseuse on a merchant navy ship hey...I'll leave that one alone and simply raise an eyebrow!

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Ha ha ha! Ok so maybe some whitty banter doesn't equate to De'Angelo.

Yeh, she gets that all the time! She's on a ship full of frustrated men! AFC central. I think I'm gunna go with your first suggestion.

just forget everything, learn a little about romania, a couple of phrases and go talk to her, she will lvoe talking about her own country and you showing an interest.
then just ask her out for a drink --it really is that simple

Awesome, yeh i think that's my game plan. Although I am seeing another girl on wednesday, so I'm not sure I will follow this one up......I'll see how wednesday goes
Thanks for the advice though