I tried being uber direct with a couple of the girls in my social circle. That was a mistake, let me tell you. Before, they used to message me to come and hang out and flirt loads with me, now they won't even talk to me.

thats because midas... you have to be a certain person from when you meet...

you cant just change who u are to people who already know u, otherwise the change sparks caution.

Yeah, that's definitely true. I've certainly learned that lesson the hard way.

I didn't know them THAT well though...

yea but there first impression of you was wrong...

I strongly suspect that if I had have gone uber-direct with them the first time I had met them, it wouldn't have gone down well either.

I nearly had a good response with it one night though. This girl looked the type to go for that kind of thing so I just told her, "Let's go back to mine now, so I can fuck you till the sun comes up." She looked impressed and even told me, "I like your honesty." Then she gave me her number, but she wasn't up for it that night, for whatever spaztard girly reason.