It doesn't matter if you're trying to succeed or fail as long as you have fun doing it and don't give a fuck
try doing dumb ass shit that makes you laugh..... learn that pickup is fun, not a chore.
Blowouts can be good.... walk up to girls and be weird and ask for their number... when they say no, stare at the floor and exhale loudly. stand there till they feel weird and run away. relish this.
when u start having fun with this, AA goes away