Right Everyone , i think it's time to lay down afew home truth's about inner game . New and old guys alike are still focussing on the superficial so if you want to sort your shit out , please pay attention .

I need to start by saying , before you even start reading this , realise that there are no boundaries to anything that you do , sucess is limitless . The only walls you put up between you and sucess are in your mind ... Let's begin

Life is what you make it ! We're all individuals so we create our reality based on personal experience . Im going to use , myself , Jynx , Kowalski and Jaz (from what little i know of him) as examples so keep an eye out . If you go out expecting a bad night or for people to blow you out (as happens to Jymx on many occasion)... You can bet your sweet ass that your going to find enough examples of how you've had a bad night ! No one has the right to enjoy life more than you ... period , the world is just as much yours to enjoy (as well as the women in it ...) Go out every night knowing you are loved , accepted and attractive (as Jaz and Kowalski !) and you WILL find examples of how this is true (despite the fact that is already is true anyway)

Just yesterday , 2 of my 3 gf's found out about each other and proceeded to break up with me within minutes of each other so for this section i know what im talking about ! It is human nature to focus on the negative and to let these negative emotions take control . I forget who said it but the saying is very true 'Energy flows where attention goes' ... If you focus on lets say a bad set ... That's where your energy will be (i've been blown out before many times , but of course that's going to happen , why dwell on it) . Lets reframe it and say you had a bad set but your still out having an awsome night with your mates , zoom back and get a broader perspective of how awesome your life actually is .

Some of you aren't going to like this ... but if your want to change your life , you can't wait for a saving grace . It is very much up to you to change in yourself , not paying people for coaching or going to bootcamps ect . For some people it's time to stop blaming friends , family , work or society and start accepting responsability for your own unhappiness and do something about it .

Isn't it funny that already by being here you are some of the strongest guys i know ... Everyone has setbacks , bad sets and unfortunate experiences , failing is fine , deciding to quit is certainly not . We're all here because we have openly acknowledged that there is something lacking and something we want to improve on , that was the hardest part . We can't force a girl to like us as we aren't in complete control of her emotions , but we are in control of ours ! We're lucky enough to get to choose how we respond and react !

At this moment in time , bar obvious exceptions . You are not hindered by any past experience , you are not contracted to any future duties . You are in complete control of you in the here and now . Once you realise that the so called 'field' is YOUR field ... That the sets are YOUR sets and everything you do when you go out is under YOUR control ... You might start to see things in a different light . If you WANT to stand at the bar and chill for a while , go for it ... But if your stood at the bar and you WANT to be chatting to women ... Control your situation and do it .

It's alot of information i know , but do your best to try to take as much away as you can ... Being in control of you is so much more important than which opener to use or which game to play .

Swype

As you sit there, reading the text on the screen, you can just about slowly begin to hear the cracking of bone and the wet smack of sinew tearing as you slowly push your way through my skull and in to the Mind of Sync…

An unlocatable yet omnipresent voice dialogues with another…

“Dood, don’t do it….some good stuff in there…you know what they’re getting at…”

“True that, but there’s more, and you know it”

“There’s always more! Why rock the boat?”

“Cause I’ve got something say, and if I don’t say it, It’ll fester. Do you wanna clean that shit up?”

“Ar fuck, not again…<sigh>”

“Are you with me?”

“…..GAH! Ok.Ok. I’m with you”

“Let’s do it.”


Yes, we create our own personal barriers. Yes, we choose to recreate and maintain limitations in each moment. Yes, energy flows where attention goes.

But, shit happens.

Your life is not totally your creation. Things happen to you outside of your control. We CO-create our existence as a transaction between things happening in the exterior and your interior. You only get to choose your response to those things in the exterior. You can respond consciously and not use shit as an excuse but admit you know shit when you smell it, or react unconsciously and use shit as an excuse to not even look it…cause you hate shit. While this is the subtle difference that makes the difference between a charmed and a damned life, it’s still only half the equation.

It’s great to focus on the positive. It’s empowering to manifest the things that you want in your life. Get good at this and you can create many wonderful things.

It’s still half the story though. And if you begin to believe it’s the full story then it can be tempting to want to avoid and gloss over real suffering with some new technique or perspective.

Perception isn’t reality. It’s your map of the territory. You better believe, however, that there is something out there called reality and sometimes, whatever way you want to look at it; it can have very pointy teeth.

I don’t want endless debate. I think there’s some great stuff in here that would make a huge difference to countless lives.

However, I think it’s important to call a spade a spade. If some shit is happening to you that is causing you suffering don’t try and make it something else or pretend that it doesn’t hurt. This is creative avoidance. Running away.

Grit your teeth and Face it. Choose to suffer and feel in to it. Open up to it till you can’t grit no more and surrender to letting it be what it is. It’s fucking hard to muster the strength to face something only to know that that resistance must then be broken to let it be what it is. I still run from things - but I have also said yes to suffering and opened unconditionally and I know the release it can bring.

What I’m saying is that these techniques and ideas are glorious, powerful and aptly described but, from my experience at least, these are the first things I reach for when I’m looking to run from something.

Shit happens.

Don't write as good as u guy's, so all i can say is

What a Fucking great post

Keep it up

I'm goddam cool , I'm goddam awsome . Those who know this I love , those who don't I envy ! I hold nothing against no-one and I do not judge , this is how I live , how I hope you live . Go and love being you x

the secret

you choose who you are and are going to be , having no limitation as limitation is what seperates whats on either side of the atmosphere
you have what you choose
Energy flows where attention goes

swype , respekt

There has been some excellent posts in this thread, well fucking done to you all.

All I'll add is this

Embracing the suffering and negative thoughts/experiences is the best advice I have ever, and probably will ever receive!
Just to let you guys know I think posts like these are truly great and are a big inspiration to anyone wanting to learn how to become a stronger, wiser person!!
Mucho's RESPECT xx