Shhhhhh Phil I think she likes me

Wow - really no ulterior motive here at all. I wrote a blog post today that I thought the PUA community would find enjoyable and helpful, and I hope you do. This isn't about 'getting business' - PUA is not what I do. I wanted to share - if you read it, you'll see that. I'm not here to pick up or be picked up - I'm genuinely interested in what you guys do. Help yourself to my website - I always appreciate feedback, even if it's harsh.

Advise.

I just picked apart BBC F1 web pages after receiving an email at work today from some director thanking me for my input on site feedback and once he found out what I do for my job he asked me to attend a meeting at the Head Office to pitch some of these ideas and I'm getting a free tour of McLaren and 1 race pass for the 2015 season.

I think I wee'ed a little when I read the email. Excitement fucks with the bladder.


Would you like my new site audit now, or later?
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Lucy, welcome. Post and advise others but don't promote or pretend to be a godly-all-knowledgeable person. I like the quote "You don't know most of what you think you know". I've taken a look at your site and you seem to have a homepage problem with a separate page underlay (like 2 pages competing for homepage status) but rectifies on refresh. And your homepage is very wordy and compact, was that intentional as a sort of blog format?
The pics at the bottom of the homepage could be adapted into an infagraphic - a sort of conveyer belt or similar.


That's it for now. Time to hit town.

If you have intention of becoming the new girl- pua- guru ur too late.

its been done to death.

Thanks for the welcome Barney Stinson :) I'm not here to promote or advise - I genuinely thought you guys would like to know about how PUA is received by women, the good and the bad. Ha! godly-all-knowledgeable ... not in this lifetime, sadly. I'll happily offer a different perspective, but only if I'm asked and if it's useful to you. I'm not about telling people what they 'should' do - ever. Congrats on your email btw - score!

Hi Lucy,

I just had a look at u on linked in... u have mahoosive bangers.

PUA and its reception by women is irrelevant. Women are far too emotional and don't know what they want.

They say they want a good guy, but are attracted to bad
they pretend they don't care about money and call it 'security'
they say that looks don't matter yet a 5 very rarely will pull a 10

womens opinon is moot so far as attraction is concerned.

I often explain how i go about pulling to women and they say "id smack u in the face" that same approach at a later point will have me in bed with them.

WOMEN ARE CLUELESS.

furthermore, this forum isn't really PUA. the pus community is a group of dorks who can't actually get laid.

this is a group of lads who some may be dorks, but mostly we realise fucking girls is secondary to living live and having a laff.

if ur keen on social dynamic ur welcome, if u wanna try sell product the other forums will lap u up.

Here u will get eaten for breakfast....

and if u inbox me on linked in... ill eat u for breakfast. then u can make me some.

Thanks for the heads up Phil, but that's really not why I'm here. PUA is very much a peripheral issue that pops up occasionally in my coaching, certainly not where my niche is. It's easy for women to get cross and disenchanted by PUA, but I'd like to understand it better, and get to know some of the people that use it. It's a really dumb thing to attack or disregard something without truly knowing it, so I'm hoping to get a deeper understanding. I get you guys could feel it's an intrusion having a woman on the forum - sorry if I've ruffled feathers, and I really am grateful for the welcome.

Seems to be the females that start talking about this at work. We have huge debates and stuff about picking up, girls picking up guys, etc.. We also go through this list here; 1 question per day.

That's cool. Post if you want to and if you feel its relevant (funny/sarcasm is widely accepted as relevant no matter the topic), don't wait to be asked. If you have something to say; say it.

Better to ask for forgiveness than ask for permission.

Thanks!

its not an intrusion ... just trust mean when i say

ITS NOT SOMETHING OF VALUE. u can't get a better understanding thats the point.

the whole thing was written to make men think about thinking so they buy more books.

shit like

"if a girl isn't giving u her number u need to micro calibrate more, we have this new book on micro calibration"

"if she doesn't sleep with me you didn't use the cool super mage technique which is found on our new bootcampl for just £999.99 for 45 mins"

if u want some better understanding of how to create attraction in women look at david de angelo 66 laws.

women like

Men who are men
men who are not controlling but take control
assertive
men who offer security
men who make them laugh.
men who don't hide their sexual intent.
men who treat them well but who could be the antithesis.
they like men who are interested, but not that interested.
women like a challenge
women like men who don't just put up with their shit
someone who will put them in their place.



all the other crap is just bollocks.

the above is all u need.


now get to my million pound mansion where I'm doing a stand up comedy show about how much i love sex. ill buy u a bottle of wine but not a dead expensive one. Ill have u a dance off ( which i will destroy u) but don't bother giving me shit or i will send u home.

Hi Lucy,

This is not a PUA forum as such (as Phil has already said).
Most guys on here will have started off reading 'The game' which promotes things like 'The mystery method'. This is how I think of 'PUA'.

Ironically most people on this forum don't think in such a structured way and and we want to improve ourselves in general. Not just in meeting women.

Since joining this forum, I have read some many interesting book, in particular about psychology / meditation and it's improved my life no end.

I did look at your website and to me it looked a little fluffy. I'm interested to hear your views however I'll be more inclined to follow the advice of guys on this forum who get laid on a regular basis and who do so without any 'PUA' nonsense.


Mark