Hey guys i have a date tonight with this thai girl i met a couple of days ago in this club. I wanted to know if you have any tips for getting her to bed. What kind of conversation should i have with her. How should I get the game running? It was easy in a nightclub. But now when I actually have a date with her what to do?

A normal conversation usually helps.

There is no 'game' to run just be your true authentic self. Talk about things you want to say that interest and amuse you, throw in some flirtatious comments, generate some banter and that's it. She'll either like you or not. Who cares.

Just be chill.

yaa. normal conversation is what i always do. i end up being their friend after. i don't wanna go in the friend zone. every time this happens. n i hate it.

Well if you add the rest of what I said into normal conversation then you should be ok. There are no 'tricks' or 'tactics' as such to guarantee your desired outcome, just learn from trial and error don't be outcome dependant. Even if she does 'friend zone' you then take her up on the offer. Get her out with your boys and her girls, have some drinks and anything could happen.

Seriously, relax. It's OK saying you're not 'outcome dependant' (I hate PU speak) but you won't truly be like that until you really don't care about whether it goes anywhere or not.

Remember to touch her, if she has a ring on her hand or something on her wrist, touch her there, hold her hand while you speak about it.

Don't rush to fill silences, let her speak and work for it.

If she's boring me, my mind wanders off. I'll either find myself looking around the room, or I'll just change topic.

A bit of hot and cold body language helps.

Don't leave it till the end to kiss her...

Got all that? Write it down, take it will you and keep reading your notes while you're with her.

But seriously, take some risks here. If you've only ended up being the friend, in effect, you've only ever lost. Take a chance on winning, there is nothing you can loose, only gain.

There will be many more like her.

So how did it go Joe? share with us your experience.

hey Joe! how did it go?

Ok the secret code to get into her pants is:
but in all seriousness the other guys are right there is no special way to talk your way into a girls pants.

For me personally I really hate the word Seduction. It implies persuasion and the need to convince a girl to kiss/sleep with/date you.

I think a much better way to approach things is to attract, not just a girl but people in general.

As Hammertime suggested touching works very well. The only caveat with this is that she has to feel comfortable with you touching her which means you must be comfortable touching her. It takes a little practice with trial and error finding out what is right and even then there are no hard and fast rules.

I held hands pretty fast on dates. So within half an hour I'll either have just grabbed their hand or played with their ring/nails/bracelet and just left their hand there.

As for conversation be genuine and don't be afraid to disagree (if you don't agree with her opinion) or change the subject if it's boring (just don't be an arse about it)
Also tease, if she says something funny or retarded run with it. My girlfriend is really easy going so if she says something like "On Thursday we're going for dinner with xyz" I tell her to stop being so controlling and ruling my life and she loves it.

thanks daleinthedark. actually it went really well. i had body contact and stuff n i tried to kiss her but she said that she wanted to have a long term relationship and wouldn't kiss me on the first date. and also i found out that she was 28 being like 7 years older to me but looked just like 20.

Touching..something I need to work on definitely and something which I believe can make or break 'seduction'. Stupid as my job involves a lot of touching haha..

with that attitude you will fail

ENJOY your time with her, be genuine. dont be cringy