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Lightbulb Rood's Forumula of everything which goes on that needs no formula - 23-09-2009, 11:12 PM

This post comes after writing another post I will put up later but got distracted and ended up writing this on instead.

This is about breaking down our interactions in specfic points the culmilitive build up of which reflects on our goals. It goes as following,



Desire + Internal State + Perception of the Environment + Previous Learned Behavious = Action in Humans

  • The more intense a desire of an outcome the more likely it will be acheived.
  • The more positive internal state you are in the more chance of sucess you will have.
  • The more favourable and positive of the environment or similar environments the more success you will have.
  • The more expereiences you've had in the environment or similar environments the more sucess you will have.

Lets play it by example in pick up,
Someone who has no desire to talk to women despite being at a singles night and having fucked many women and is in a hell of a great mood wont being picking up simply beceause he wont choose to.

Someone who really wants to have a positive expreience with a woman which impacts on their actions, but is at a club where there is a 1/25 ratio of women to men and only been out once while still feeling amazing will have slightly more options of sucess but not that great in comparison.

Or someone who really wants to have a positive expreience with a woman which impacts on their actions, is in a normal place with lots of oppertunites to meet women and have had many experiences of doing so in the place yet say their sister has died will have more chance of sucess but the odds are against them.

But Someone who really wants to have a positive expreience with a woman whitch impacts on their actions, Is is in a normal place with lots of oppertunites to meet women and have had many experiences of doing so in that place and feels like the entire world has just sucked his dick then the odds are very much stacked in his favour.

I believe there is a hirerarchy as well with desire and state the most important then to the perception of the enviroment and learned behavious following on, but they all feedback on themselves. An increase in one aspect follows an increase in others just as a decrease in one decreases the effect of others. Such a going to place you think is shit can decrease your internal state. Or the learned behaviours you've had can decrease your desire. So lets break it down.

Desire



I belive this to be the most important aspect of any interaction. What do you want to happen. If you know what you want and you set your mind to how you want to acomplish that then your state and your perception of the environment follow suite naturally. It doesnt get mentioned much in pick up since its assumed the people looking for the material, already have a reasonable enough desire in order to look for the knowledge in which they can translate desire into learned behavious. So it doesnt get as mentioned as much. But I honestly believe when your with a girl and you can show your desire for her in a cool masculine way then that translates into reality.

Perception of Environment



I say perception of environment rarther than environment itself because perception of the environment is subjective thing. How one person see a place is differnt to anothers, how one person perceives a persons actions is different to anothers. Perception of an environment is very much realted to learned behavious. How we see a place is judge off similar experinces we've had in the past. But this can be swayed, If our perception of the environment can be looked upon in the best positive way to suite or goals then we see what we want want with stuff in our way rarther than obsitvles blocking our path. A change in how we see the world can change our lives forever.

Previous Learned Behaviours



Just as we see our idols in the pick up community talking from experience we know there was a time when they were a virgin. We would'nt hear from them if they handnt had the experiences they have had. Just as we can all see the progession we have all made from when we all started off as newbies to where we are now. The more experiences both good and bad will progress you will make. I like to think of it like a game of Final fantasy, you start off weak only able to beat the weakest of creaturs but the more you fight the more experience points you gain and bigger challanges you can over come. The more successful learned behaviours you can have through your actions the greater the success you will have.

Internal State



This all comes down to positivity and enthusiamsm. The better mood you can be in the better mood those around you will be. (hence the good mood opener) If you can express pure happiness just being yourself and being happy with what see in the world then the more people will want to be around you. If you can come from a place where negitivty flows past you and you embrace each moment as a fulling experince with joy and laughter then are nothing but pure awesome. How you feel reflects upon your how perceive the environment. I also use this to include such things as alcohol or drugs as each is a chemical designed to effect you inernal state. Such as the need to get 'dutch courage' to get into the state of approaching.



I belive all of pick up can be encompassed in this formula. We can all debate on which aspect is the most important such as the leanred behaviours versus the internal state such as the mystery method focus on learned behaviours v RSD focus on internal state. We may be awesome at one and need work on another aspect. The key thing is knowing what will make you and your interactions better you can acheive the results you want.

PS there is nothing new here, You can find this or aspects of this in any guru you may seek. Plus I've missed loads off but I cant keep rewriting this so...
..thoughts, feedback wellcome

Also I had alot of fun writing this hehe


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Default 24-09-2009, 11:14 AM

nice post reminds me of the RSD blog posts with all the images in it.
Just one thing why the image of Tarantino?


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