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Originally Posted by Refl3x
Pal i understand where you are coming from.
When i cheated on my ex... a family friend of hers started flirting with her and i flew into a total rage -- to the point where i redirected it on some poor chump who was annoying me in his car-- i ended up over taking him and swerving side on in the main road and stopped about 20 cars while i ranted at this fucker who wouldnt dare get out his car.
its beacause youve still got emotion/feelings invested in your ex so it feels like betrayal to you-- also be aware that a common thing some girls will do who have been really hurt is to end up fucking somone you know or one of your friends--ive seen that happen before.
Youve got to ride the world of fucking mess you made now and hopefully you`ll come out the other side of it a better person.
I madea point in one of your posts a long time ago when you first joined that you were on this site for the wrong reasons and you would end up cheating on your ex-- you chirped up that you were just here for 'self development'
this was inevitable
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Yeah you're right. I probably was always going to cheat it was just a matter of time.
It does feel like betrayal, but its conflicting in my head cos I know logically we're over and I shouldn't give a shit. But I do. I don't want her back, or anything like that. How does one "de-invest" emotions in a girl? My guess is Time.
Its funny, I've been in this situation before, where the girl is moving on, with somebody I know, and theres fuck all I can do about it. It makes me feel shit for a few days, but then, I go have sex with some hot blonde and all is forgotten about.
At the end of the day, I think I need to realise that I deserve this shit, and to just let it be. I txt the guy and said: "Do what you want, but two wrongs won't make a right and you'll be as bad as me". He replied: ha gd night dan
Why is it so easy for a man to move on and sleep with someone else, but its so hard for us to watch the girl move on?
I also get more pissed off because I'm losing sleep over someone who I DIDNT WANA BE WITH! And also, because my stomachs churning cos she's going on dates. Plus side = I release some anger doing weights in the gym I guess.
I am slowly starting to think on the side of "fuck it, i dont give a shit" and not even bother acknowledging her existance.