Here is something i found on another forum and thought it would help (i didnt write this)....

Author: Cardenas
Site: Thelss.com

I have been meaning to post this since Catnaps Newbie Boot Camp- where incidentally I got a crash course in the Mega Method courtesy of Mega Mike. It changed my life.

A couple of the newbies asked me what my frame is and how I think in order to approach the way I do. It is really simple, and can be applied by any of you who wish to do so:

I DON’T GIVE A FUCK.

Honestly I don’t and neither should any of you. Why on earth should anyone feel unworthy to talk to a girl or embarrassed about getting blown out? We are all the same, we all have two arms, two legs and one head- the only thing that differentiates us all is how we think and fuck what she thinks.

Why should I give a fuck if that girl doesn’t want to talk to me? Fuck the miserable bitch, it’s her problem not mine.

I honestly don’t care what anyone thinks and I would say that is true of Steve Jabba, Bullboy and Beckster. Last night Beckster did the splits whilst dancing to Footloose ffs, I have seen Jabba go up to a bunch of wannabe footballers wives and re-enact that scene in Scarface where he flicks his tongue out like a king cobra/perv. Those are not the actions of someone who cares what anyone else thinks! I on the other hand have never done anything so outlandish.

Stop giving a fuck, and grow some balls. The most alpha behaviour you can display is doing what you want when you want- within reason of course (Cardenas will not be held responsible for you making girls cry or shagging loads). The only person who should be able to dictate how you feel is you- NEVER give anyone that power over you.

What if someone doesn’t like what you said or did- fuck them. Well, what if someone doesn’t like the shirt you are wearing? It all depends on how much importance you associate to it and it will differ from person to person. So don’t attach so much importance to the thoughts of some idiot in a bar who you wouldn’t even recognise if you saw them again.

Why be restricted by the perception of randoms you do not care about?

You probably are not doing anything out of the ordinary, but if you are, you will be so surprised by how much people will let you get away with before they say anything. In fact 99% of people will let you do what you want; they may just cuss you once you have left. This is the English culture- we are terribly polite for no reason. Just look at Trigger Happy TV as an example- you have got guys dressed in bear suits bashing the shit out of each other in the street and people just walk on, pretending it is not happening.

To conclude I will quote Trigger from the Tight Crew, really I should have pretended I made this up:

“When I die I imagine that I will be sent to a room to watch a video of my life. When I am watching it I want to see tons of cool stuff I did, as opposed to a video of all the missed opportunities I had, and saying to myself I wish I wasn’t such a pussy and just went for it”.

When you are out sarging or even just in everyday life, do what you want instead of procrastinating- chat up that hot girl, slap your boss, open that 3 set, but whatever you do just fucking do something. So in the words of the fountain of PUA knowledge that is Robbie Williams- “no regrets they just make it worse”