Here is something i found on another forum and thought it would help (i didnt write this)....

Author: RandomX
Site: Thelss.com
Pick Your Fights (for struggling newbies)
« on: October 28, 2006, 12:13:53 PM »

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Pick Your Fights

This is mainly for struggling newbie’s who may not have been laid yet.

There are girls out there that want to fuck you, so why not go and fuck them.

I’m sure you’ve said to yourself “I’m better than that chick. I am higher value than her. I’m an 8, she is a 4, 5, 6 whatever. She would be absolutely stoaked if I went up to her and showed interest in her.” So go and do it.

To get your confidence up, go and approach these girls. I know you want the 7s, 8s, 9s, etc but you need successes to build up to that. Success breeds future success.

I’m not saying you NEED to fuck them, but game them to the point where they are expecting to take you home, or make a day 2 arrangement. You don’t need to go through with it. But we are all here for one thing, to get laid. Start at the bottom and work your way up. I’m sure after you’ve laid a 3 or whatever, you’ll be extra keen to go for a 4 or 5.

I’m at the point now where I don’t want to go for anything under a 7. I recently picked up a 5 however. But I picked her up with no trouble at all because I KNEW she would be stoaked to talk to me, and I KNEW she would be blown away that I was talking to her. It is the same with everyone. There are girls out there that you can fuck now (and you don’t need to pay for them!).

Make it easier on yourselves. Get successes. Soon you WILL be getting the girls you find really attractive plus you will have built up a repertoire of skills to be able to interact with girls better. How many shite songs did U2 have to write before they made it? I don’t know but I bet it was fucking heaps. And they still write shite songs sometimes, haha.

Don’t stress too much about talking to the 10’s and getting blown out. Get successes, have fun, sooner rather than later your confidence is going to tell you to reach higher.

Confidence is a great thing. Having the knowledge that you’ve laid 5 girls in the past month is going to allow you to go up and talk to that 8 or 9 and know that you can handle it.

I’ve gotten to the stage now where, when I know I can fuck a girl (either she is IOIing me, or I know that I am higher value than her) I have got the skills to act on it. This is mainly with 6s and below. But this number keeps rising. I’m sure I’ll be able to do it with 7s and 8s soon. Success = confidence = more success. But have fun. If you’re not having fun then you’re not going to continue to do it.

Save yourself some hassles guys and pick your fights (fucks)!

Bonus Features…….

Confidence

Think back to all your good sexual encounters. Even if it is just a kiss you got in 7th grade, or a flirtatious look someone gave you once. These are all signs that you are fuckable. Somebody wanted to fuck you. Keep thinking about these even if it is just one thing. That one thing is significant.

Inspiration

Read/listen/look as much as possible at things where a guy is successful with girls.

E.g.:

Joey off “Friends”
Mr Pussy off “Sex and the City”
The guys off “The Wedding Crashers”
Usher
Justin Timberlake
Lenny Kravitz
Ask girls what celebrities they find attractive

Dress like them, do what they do. Relate to these guys, make them your brothers. Get it into your head what it is like to fuck lots of women. Obviously some of these are fictional characters, but who cares? You need to find out what it is like in their reality. It won’t make you irresistible to women straight away, but it will get you in the right frame. But you still need to keep reading PUA literature of course.

Hope this helps someone out there! I know it has and is helping me keep achieving my PUA goals. My ultimate goal at the moment is to fuck 7 different girls in 7 nights. It’s close to happening. I’ve had 3 in 3. Cheers guys!

Really need to attribute the author if you're going to copy something across. Things people write on forums are still their property and you should technically have permission before reposting it elsewhere. General etiquette is to at least attribute the owner and linkback, most people won't ask for something to be removed(which a forum legally has to do) if this etiquette is followed.

Basically, give credit where credit is due.

EDIT: Better

I hate to totally rubbish this whole article, but from my experience I totally disagree with it. I find the hotter they are, the more comfortable they are at being approached well and flirting back and the more likely I am to make a big effort to bring my best game. I chat to girls I'm not attracted too, to warm me up and because I just like being social, but I find I don't put the same effort into girls I'm genuinely not attracted to. Also in a good club there is no excuse for having low standards as hot girls are everywhere and it's just a waste of your precious time going for the uglies.

point taken. i found this article interesting because it offers advice on what you can do to help pick urself up. I dont think its wrong, neither do i think what you're doing is wrong. i just feel that this is something that could potentially work for newbies and people who are just getting into the game to help their state.