I DO think too much and over-analyse at times. I know it's one of my sticking points, probably my biggest one. I just have a lot going on in my head at the moment and I get carried away with myself. I have a tendency to obsess over things. It may be a symptom of my ADHD. I don't want to come across as a prick. I'm here because I want to improve myself and the quality of my relations, not just with women, but with people in general.

Oh, in that case, I take it all back then! Lol... no but seriously, there is some truth in it.

@ Piers

How can you expect women to like you if you don't like yourself? By telling lies and generally putting across the facade of this confident 'swagga' persona that you don't actually feel, you're essentially telling yourself the only way women will like you, is to not be you. Dude, you'll only crush your self esteem this way, and unecessarily though. Instead work on your self acceptance as a person, discover your principles and become someone you truly respect. That is what great men are made of!

If you find this too vague, I would recommend indulging in a couple of self helps books and reading up on a few philosphies, perhaps on both moral and 'authenticity and the self' as Kowalski mentioned. It'll help shift your perspective from what seems to be a negative subjective interpretation of yourself and the world to a more open minded state. Blueprint Decoded is a great one to start with if you're unfamiliar with the stuff, and it has some nice details. Oh yeah, and drop this bitch, if you're going to grow as a person you will need to scrape off the mouldy bits.

I will find my real self and try to be geniune as i think this last two months have been very intense for me.

And it is a learning experience for me and i have made some fucking stupid mistakes and probaly been to open on this furum oh well you dont know me well not in real life!

I have reada lot of self help books i read the tao and im trying to be more genuine and honest as know more lairing to get the woman fuck why should i lie im a great guy.

As for dumping her hell know i like her and its not her fault shes in this situiation the dick husband had a break down and left her in debt hence why she had to hook up with local millionare.

Its a case of surviving doing what it takes to avoid being homeless desitute and keeping a roof over her kids heads if anything she should be commended.I said well done you used your wits womanly charms to avoid god knows something horrible.As for midus touch your threads are fine be cool dudes.