Boscher, glad you posted something about driving with women…got me thinking about Game methods to using during a Bounce or other form of relocation.
A few weeks ago I started to notice that my Game during a form of transportation with a woman (be that a taxi, me driving, her driving, walking to a new venue) tended to slack off. It was as if I had left my Game in the club and I started to resort back to my AFC ways: practically interviewing her…bad news.
I still can’t quite put my finger on exactly why this happened to me, but I’ve come up with a good method of preventing it in future. Un-Named as of yet, but I’ve been referring to it as Bounce Technique. Its amazing how many new avenues of routines open up to you when your on the move. An example of the most recent one I’ve used would be me driving a girl home after stopping by after a night out…
*Points to street corner while driving past*
“That’s the place my buddy got knocked down crossing the road. We were with a few of our friends after leaving the pub and even though he wasn’t drunk he didn’t see the car coming. You should have seen his girlfriend, she totally freaked out and a couple of the guys we were with just froze up when they realised he was un-conscious…….”
You see where this is going, the routine is fairly self explanatory and includes everything from DHV Spikes to Social Proofing and Pre-Selection. The good thing about using this type of story during the Bounce is that it prevents any awkward silences (usually caused by the moment she takes out her phone and starts texting, putting you in the Chauffer Mindset!!).
Just wanted to post that in case this happened with anyone else, I decided to write up a few routines specifically for Bounce Technique that are usable during most methods of transport. The bonus being that the question never arises as to “why is he telling me this” because you can literally point anywhere and start the story. I use true story’s but adapt the location as I feel it gives the best delivery.
Further Suggestions Appreciated!