Hi all,

Have registered a long time ago but only just had time to post something or get into this whole Game thingy. I have been reading Style's 'Rules of the Game' and will be devoting time over the next month doing the challenges. I have moved to a point where I have the courage to ask for numbers and arrange meets, however I find I do get stuck at 'let's be friends' and can't seem to move things along. Also they don't seem to be girls whom I want to be with.

Over the past 4-5 months, I have had 3 targets all of which seem to be stuck at friend level. One I have met for dinner three times and watched movie once but decided it's getting nowhere and now that I know her better don't think I want it to go any further. The other I have hung out with 2-3 times but now everytime I ask out for drinks, insist on having other ppl come along. The final one who is a work colleague but has a boyfriend. I think there have been signs of interest but we have only had coffee at work 2-3 times. I have invited her out for lunch outside of work but she has refused. So not quite sure where to go from here. Any advice will be much appreciated.

In any case, hopefully I can improve on my game by joining this community. Might even sign up for a bootcamp organised by the guys at PUAtraining site. Will also be looking for wingman to go sarging at some point in London.

Armour

Ditch rules of the game i got it too & done some of the challenges i even called strangers asking for movie recommendations (dick) but its a load of bollocks. After a while you realize all the pua stuff just clogs your brain & you can do fuck all cos thers so much shit in your head you dont know what to say to a chick.

I cant believe at one stage i was intending to ask "who lies more" or "do you think spells work?" (dick) ... some of this shite can be used as a crutch but nothing else unless your american.

Im really confident in myself now & even though i havnt mastered opening in any situation, im getting there, & doing it naturally & not trying too hard in fact i try & make them chase ME lol

i totally agree with too much PUA info and not enough experience does clogg up your brain and maybe even make you come across as awierdo lol

'im getting there, & doing it naturally & not trying too hard in fact i try & make them chase ME lol' hahahaha

i like that, any examples on technique to make them chase you???

make them attracted by showing sexy masculine traits, then go back-n-forth between flirting and ignoring/being friends. Start smaller, and slowly build it up. Keeps them confused, which just makes them want you more.

I learned it from the girls that are chased by a lot, and do it to those guys all the time. Turn the table on them and they don't know what hit them.

But I should caution you that it only works to a point, and I'm still trying to figure out that point. Girls will put up with a lot less 'tail chasing' that guys will.

Dont be all over them & just come across like you dont give a shit whether you pull them or not & you will stand out to the really hot girls who will wonder why you arent "all over her".

But dont be arrogant or come across as a cunt either lol

You're going to get a lot of 'don'ts' on here. Don't do this, don't do that. It's like being a kid again.

Do: immerse yourself in this forum, read loads of old posts on topics you've recognised as your weaknesses. Learn from others mistakes (of which there are infinite examples).

Then trial and error, it's all about what works for you. Everyone whose any good on here has their own little ways that work for them. Absorb these, pick and choose, experiment and you'll begin to understand.

Just forget the 3 girls you mentioned. They're pretty much gone now, accept this. Focus on getting more girls numbers, get a high quantity for you to 'experiment' on. Then when you find ones you really like, you'll be pretty calm about it, not needy or weird etc.

check when he joined

Regardless of when he joined, everything I said is relevant.

he posted that yonks ago, the thread only re opened due to a bot. thats why i never commented