Hi Everyone,

I'm 21 years old, and always suffered from 'one-itis'. I've been in 3 long term relationships, totalling 6 years, already - and I'm done with that.

A friend of mine recommended I read 'The Game' - she'd heard some guys had some luck with it. I got reading, got interested, got looking around, and got a pair of balls. Reading the book made me think "If these guys can do it, why can't I?" I'm not a particularly bad looking guy, just not very "stand-out" - also always had issues approaching. After reading the game though I decided what's the point in being 'afraid' of people I don't even know, who I'll probably never see again?

I've only been studying for about a week now - and already score one! Wink Was out with work last night in a club, and tried chatting with a few of the girls in the club who weren't from work. I got a response and a wink, but I kept going to the void and convo died.

I was planning on going out to another club with mates, but they bailed. I wasn't done though, and went out solo. After getting some 'dutch courage' (Which I want to work away from) I stood beside these two chicks, but wasn't brave enough to move in. A little while later I noticed a guy talking to one of the girls - leaving the other one solo. (Okay not the greatest of moves, but gotta start somewhere!).

I swooped in and opened with the awesome "Do I look gay? Some guy outside grabbed my ass!", and got the convo going from there. A few hours later I was waking up next to her Wink

I got kinda lucky, I think it was a mix of UFC getting lucky and wanting to be a PUA - but it's a starting point. I've never had an issue with end game - it's getting there that's been my problem.

I'm located in Northern Ireland, looking to maybe find/be a wing - my current friend pool isn't good enough for this :-)

I find it difficult to keep convo's going as I'm pretty much a nerd, and I try to avoid the topic of games and computers - leaving me with little to go on. Hoping to expand here, find out some good chatup routines, etc.

Sorry for the long intro! If anything I just want to make people aware that this sort of stuff really does work, no matter how silly it may sound/feel. As I said, I had some dutch courage, but I'm hoping to get to the point where I'm confident enough to keep a convo going and throw some openers without drinks, as I feel it hinders my game.

Brilliant, good to hear Zed :-) Thanks for getting in touch!

Hey man, we talked on the other forum.

Im gunna have to get up to belfast to join forces with yous lads sometime.

I was actually considering moving there cos my area sucks, that was before i found out ive a kid on the way, but never say never.


Anyways, i'll get somethin sorted out.

Definitely mate, would certainly be good to have another guy or two in the game out with me. Went solo tonight, didn't work out too well. :-P

Fair play to you for flying solo

Why didnt it go well, did you get blown out or was it just a pretty shitty night out?

Bad night out, went to Eivissa and it was packed to the doors - couldn't get moving. I wanna try and move away from the club scene I think, too loud to do much :-P

THIS...........is what I'm searching for, & these are the people I need to meet.

Come on my fellow Belfastians get in touch!!!