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Hi Craigus,

welcome back into the game. I think the specificity of your goal is great, and I also think you can tweak it to make it even better.

"It is 14th February 2011 and I have a date with a HB8+ and I am playing full on with all of my seduction resources to get laid."

The present tense is always more powerful than the future tense.
Set a goal that allows you to exceed your aspiration - add a "+"
Take 100% responsibility for your own game, and also know that you can't set an outcome on behalf of someone else (her) - a paradox, but it works.

Good luck my friend - these are only subtle inner game tweaks, but my experience is that you get what you focus on and wish for, so you can't be too specific!!!!

Thanks for the sound advice dude

I noticed in your intro that you are an NLP coach - I did a little NLP course last year, which I think kinda worked - The goal setting stuff worked really well, and building rapport & reading eye-accessing queues was really interesting. But I must say, we did nothing like the stuff covered by Ross Jeffreys, so a lot of what I learnt wasnt really usefull directly to pick-up.
tbh, I went there thinking I was gonna become some Derren Brown style NLP Jedi, but I got some interesting things out of it nonetheless.

Hi Craigus, NLP is a huge field and therefore seduction is quite a thin slice of what NLP can be applied to. I'd use rapport building skills with a potential Pick-up; you can also watch the eye patterns and ask "what are you Seeing / hearing / feeling right now?" as the eyes move and they'll think you can read minds....

A good area to focus on is The Milton Model, which is the language of Hypnosis. That's a big part of what Ross teaches and you can start to get your head around it with a little study, can you not?

See, there's an example!!!

Have fun!