Hi all,

I'm 32 years old and live between Bournemouth and London (relatively new to both). I read Mystery Method about a year ago and slowly my eyes have been opened to its genius - and the camaraderie of the community.

I have been a typical AFC for years, and -this is tough to admit - I've been hung up on the same girl for a few years. She drove me crazy, and from what I've now learned I can see objectively just how much of a chump I was.
Still hurts occasionally, but I think that's probably my ego hurting.

I could make excuses as to why I've been so slow to get properly into the game, but every journey begins with the first step. This is it. I am now ready to make a life-change and commit, instead of waiting for it to happen.

My previous experience is limited (i.e. close to zero), which, I suppose, leaves plenty of room for improvement.

In terms of various aspects of the game: I'm good at rapport. In my work I have to be talkative and to build rapport with people who are sometimes under stress. This probably helps and hinders at the same time: I've noticed that when I chat to girls I tend to try to build rapport before trying to spark attraction. I can even hear myself doing it but can't seem to stop!

My calibration and kino-escalation skills are negligble. Need to get out into the field.

I'm not after numerous one-nighters, but I want choice. Choice of the most beautiful women, classy women.

So if anyone in Bournemouth or London would like to join up please message me

Shard

welcome to the community man! im new myself, and i get what you mean about building comfort too soon. mortal enemy of the friend zone its like learning to drive (a better analagy for me, as im younger and learning to drive :L) but just get your method down, make it a pattern, itll soon be second nature as for kino, which is something i was the oposite at, overdoing it etc, just react to ioi's, and the best spot is tapping their upper arm, its not creepy, but just clase enough to show some intimacy, and AVOID touching the face, trust me, thats an instant creeper :L

Welcome on board Shard!
There are a lot of people on here who are in a similar situation, myself included. It is common to get hung up on one particular girl, and strive to impress only her, but as you say, you have made what could be considered the hardest step, and are ready to make the changes now to move forward. Best of luck to you on the journey!
I'm new to this too so will message to get group together in London soon (going to be in Germany for a bit so will sarge back here again when I get back)

Thanks for the support, Damask and Activ8. Look forward to sarging with you guys.
Was out at a ball tonight - a work related event -by myself and will post my experience in the Field Report section

Hi,
I am a new member of forum. Would a newcomer be warmly welcome here? Good day you guys!!!