Hey all,

35 year old living in london. I just just started reading up on this and can say I'm quite impressed. I've been in serial relationships all my life and wanted to learn more about PUAs. This community seems fantastic.

Any suggested readings for a total newb? I'd also love to see some of you guys in action.

Hi,
If you haven't already read it, 'The Game' by Neil Strauss (Style) is the way many people (myself included) found out about the PUA community. Its not really a skills or technique based book, more about someone joining the PUA community, but I found the first half of the book very useful as it outlines some of the methods and teachings of come of the pro's - Mystery, Style, Ross Jefferies etc - and shows the differences between how some of them work. From this you can pick specific techniques or approaches you like the look of and then read up on those e.g. Ross Jefferies uses a lot of Neurolinguistic programming techniques which may or may not appeal to you

'The Game' inspires a lot of guys to get into game. But you'll soon realise it's not the answer.

You need to go out and put yourself on the line. Find out who and what you really are. That's the best way to learn. Read all the stuff once you have got some in-field experiences to gauge it against.

okay, I just started reading magic bullets as I've read on another post and boy is that powerful. You kinda understand where its coming from.