I started reading magic bullets a few days ago, and I must say It seems like a really useful book, but obviously the biggest factor is learning to apply the knowledge!
Bit of history - Was in a long term relationship from very young (17) for 6 years! So I'm VERY much out of practice. This is definitely the reason for my inept skills. Been single for a year now.
I've had some success with dating sites, but in general i've found the quality of girl there slightly low for my taste - 8's and above don't need dating sites haha.
Anyway, I'm reasonably good looking and don't seem to have a problem getting girls attracted, but my problem is escalating! I had a 9/10 practically kissing my neck (she was smelling my aftershave repeatedly, with her nose right on me! haha) and I was too nervous to kiss her!
My conversation goes down the drain when i'm attracted to them too, struggle to get to 'qualification' and 'comfort' also.
Basically everything other than looks and body language is waaay off the mark.
Anyway, bit long winded, I look forward to conversing with you folks.