Hey people,

Im 21 now and the sports massage course got an additional hottie this week, get ready for this.... a 28 year old ex max power model who is now a personal trainer. Sound girl and isnt shy about throwing a few sexual inuendo's and cheeky comments into the mix. Think she thinks im a cool guy and can talk to her pretty easily but im 7 years her junior, not sure how to go about trying to sarge a 28 year old and building attraction between us. Might be a challenge but im up for it!

Comments, tips and thoughts please...

lol glad to see that i'm not the only one that has a thing for older women xD

who doesnt mate! But when i know a girl is a fair bit older than me, alarm bells go off in my head and i think "she'll never go for me! im 7yrs younger than her," but i know guys who have pulled it off and need a point in the right direction!

The challenge (as you put it) is the same if you try to sarge an 18 year old as compared to a 28 year old. Why make a distinction? It is different if she sets in her mind not to go with a younger man but I very much doubt it..!

A lot of the times we put the stumbling block in front of us with the "what ifs"....! Just show her loads of SOIs and take it from there...Be Confident especially if you think she thinks you cool..! Keep us posted with this max power ex-model...hmmmm!!

Gotta love the MILF's!
I'd aim to put across that you are relatively mature and not childish as you don't want to reinforce any possible assumptions she may have about younger guys being immature.
Apart from that, I'd just treat hear like Legend says, like she is your own age.

Good luck!

Like Ledge said just don't think of it as a problem, if you start worrying about it then she will. I hooked up with a older woman about a month ago and she wouldn't say her age and was saying stuff about me being too young but I just acted like it wasn't a problem and in the end it wasn't.

Just don't make it a big deal mate. I've only ever really got anywhere with older girls(only like 2 years older max though), I find more mature girls are easier to pull anyway. I'm sure you'll do fine, its only a issue if you make it one. You're in the physical prime of your life!

I've only ever slept with 1 girl younger than me and to be honest I find it easier to just think of age as a number, and only a number. It's all about who she is, if you like her and she seems interested don't hang around, work at it before someone else does, lifes too short

i once went home with a 38ish woman when i was 21, when i snuck out in the morning there was this hot 18 year old in the kitchen making a brew i recignised her as a girl i tried picking up a week before, it was her daughter she looked at me and gave me this (omg) look, i left the house kicking myself but saw the funnyside of fucking up a good chance with the daughter, when i got home i realised i had left my wallet there and had to go back. shit! get to the point, i got the old bird by pointing out i was filled with stamina being a young whipper snapper and put the pictures in her head building the peaks.

Hey guys sorry not responded to all your advice, been back in manchester and had no computer access as i was out livin it large this weekend!!

Definatly gonna act upon this now. Its difficult to get really ace convos goin in class as i really like my class and no women is worth failing a course for (to a point lol), so my plan is to act keep up the bant, throw in some DHV and boldly ask her for a number.

Will let you know how i get on, but i feel pretty confident that i can add some magic to the situation!