There’s this lass at my uni, part of my social circle. No great shakes at all but she's a good mate. She’s been constantly trying to get with me every time she’s drunk for like a year and I always turned her down. Vaguely annoying but not a real issue. But last night, while fucked up beyond all recognition, I got into her for a decent while, and finally left when she started sticking her hand down my pants in the middle of the club. The one and only reason I did it at all was because I was fucked up and on my own.

My worry is that now I’ve given in to it once I’ve opened the floodgates to being constantly molested and never left alone by this chick from now on. She’s a mate and I don’t want to be offensive or anything, but she’s really not up to my standard. I’m aware that this is a simple problem and probs not worth a post, but bear in mind I don’t get with people in my social circle as a hard and fast rule because it just makes my life a lot more drama and bullshit free, so I’m not used to dealing with shit like this.

Should I raise this as an issue, or just ignore it and not let it happen again?

Depends how good a friend she is. If it's a friendship you truely value you need to raise the issue and have the chat and frame it as 'it's not you it's me, you are a great gal blah blah blah, I don't want to ruin our friendship...blah blah.' Do it over a coffee. End it with a hug and kiss on the cheek/forehead. And just reset the friendship dynamic. Think damage limitation.

If it's not really a friendship you can see yourself holding onto longer term I guess you 'could' just ignore it...but don't kid yourself it probably will happen again. When you are loaded up and she is too she'll try it on again and one of two things will happen:

a) you blow her out big time and she ends up sobbing her heart out to your friends and making you out to be cunt.

b) you give in. fuck her. And then have to deal with all the fall out in the morning. especially if your mutual friends usher you in as the new posh and becks of your social circle..all while you'll be choking back the vomit and looking for the exits.

If you end up in situation b) you're probably gonna have to ruffle some feathers in your social circle in order to get yourself out of dodge. It depends really how much do you give a fuck about her as a mate and how much do you give a fuck about the mates she might take with her in the event that you somehow fuck her over and up walking away as the bad guy?