OK so I've been asked few times why am i not paranoid about guys hitting on my girlfriend or my girlfriend cheating on me, I ask this question because my sister just asked why am i not paranoid, she's never met my girlfriend so has no background info.

So the question is should I be paranoid, because obviously being completely paranoid will ruin the relationship and being fine completely may be being naive. I know my girlfriend gets hit on firstly because she tells me and secondly what girl doesnt get hit on.

thanks just had an epiphany

I take it as a compliment if guys hit on my girlfriend.

i always hated the idea that i was being made a prick of if i was being cheated on.

thing is, ur not, ur not a dickhead coz u trust someone and they shit on you, its them who is the horror.

if anythin, tell them how much u trust them coz u know they are not that type of person, that way they are

not cheating because u trust them

or

Feel an absolute cunt coz u trust them & they are cheating.

if its happening its happening, no amount of stress will change it. but if you trust someone, and they think u see them as loyal, they wont want to break that image you have of them, people love to maintain the pedestal u hold them on.

its like if someone thinks ur good at somethin, u hate them to see u fail!