Not really sure how to put my thoughts into words. Or if I am making any sense but I will try my best to write what I have been thinking recently...! Here goes.....!

I have come to the point in my PUA Journey that I am just going out enjoying myself. If I approach it is because I want to and not because I am complied to do so. And that if I dont, I dont have to feel guilty and feel a loser. BUT if I do, I want to make meaningful conversations. Lay down an attraction marker on the girls that I do talk to so I am remembered. I am the first to admit that an f-close is hard to come by for me. I only managed it once since I started in January, when I was in Vegas. And the rest of my f-close (7 in all) was through a few weeks/months or communication, emails, texting, phonecalls. That is what i know best. I am lost when it comes to f-close in the field but for me attraction is built over weeks/months.

A case in point: I have been talking to a girl in the gym since May. We initially just chatted, then it escalated to #-close, texting and she came out with me and my friends to a salsa club a few weeks ago. Then last Saturday night I was having a quiet night when I got a text message at 11.30pm from her asking if I fancied to go for a bogey in a club. Well the rest was history. And this for me has been a recurring chain of events of how I get laid at least once a month since January. Not a big number compared to most but hey I play to my strength.

What I am trying to say is do what is best for you. Apply the "PUA Methods" that work best for you. Or change it to suit you. Dont beat yourself if you have had a bad night in the field. I know my strength. I know I am a warm guy. People are attracted to me because I take interest in them. When I hang out with these girls I make them feel they are important. We always talk about "the girl is lucky to hang out with me" which is so TRUE but in most cases, I do think I am lucky to hang out with this hot babe. Who doesnt feel lucky to be seen with a gorgeous girl cos I do!

Anyway, these are my thoughts for now. Any constructive comments are welcome.

Much Success!!

Enjoyed reading that mate

Much Success!!

Sam

True mate,

One thing has stood out on here is how many different people are here coming from very different places with very different goals.

vive la différence!