Well I was directed back to this site the other day by an email and thought I’d have a bit of a look see.

Have spent a great hour having a good look around, great to see regulars and newbies alike.

Entertaining as ever. Some top FR’s!

Stopped coming on here and posting as I started seeing this girl and it’s going in the LTR direction. It's not so much fun when you can't go out on the pull too!

Anyway I was out the other night with a newly single mate and we had a great night, he was genuinely amazed that we “just got talking” to so many people.

I was trying to explain to him that a night out is a great social thing and you can talk to anyone perfectly legitimately. You don’t have to conform to a “just-talk-to-your-mates” agenda. I also gave him my opinion when he complained why the two girls he was chatting to walked away.

I couldn’t believe how little he knew about social dynamics and then it occurred to me just how much I’d learned from this site and from having a wingman (a genuine mate who I could chase women with and talk to about “game”)

Just wanted to get across what a good thing I think the type of PU talked about on this site is, it’s not really Pick Up at all in the sinister form (let’s-make-loads-of-money-out-of-lonely-horny-guys-by-promising-the-stars).

It’s more about living in a way you want and in a responsible way. By all means shag loads of birds but just be honest with them.

People's advice on here has helped me to improve my Social skills and accept my limitations but also appreciate my strengths.

It has made me more far more well placed to be in an LTR. As I’m confident in myself and my ability to get a mate. That’s not to say I want my relationship to finish.

I don’t.

BUT it gives me the anchoring knowledge that should it go wrong then I have the ability to find another girl and this makes me far less needy.

Result, I’m seeing a girl who I absolutely fancy the arse off.

So for the Newbies

Enjoying being a sexually potent man, go out do stuff, talk to people. Stop trying to aspire to be the type of bloke you think you need to be to shag loads of birds, it doesn’t work that way.

It’s brilliant FUN

Stop over thinking it

Don’t get pissed by the failures. My mate who I met from this site. Still meet up for a pint and literally laugh our arses off about what we used to get up to, and we laugh the most at some of the excellent failures. Don’t blame the girl, don’t blame yourself

For the Oracles

Keep giving the advice and demonstrating that none of us are infallible, keep sharing your stories.




I've recommended the site to my single mate, lets hope he starts contributing and opens his mind


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Scamp

Real good post man, I agree with everything you've said.
I'm in an LTR now and haven't posted on here in over 6 months! it's real good to still see everything still running the same, and loads of great advice.