I (sort of) pulled a really fit bird this weekend. Really sound as well. She went to kiss me and almost immediately backed off again. I know she fancies me (or at least did). I asked what's up and she says she can't because I slept with one of her best mates (who is far less attractive than her). Stupid small island!

Be careful banging average girls! I'm not a stud, I am a slag! I've had a few hotties in last year or so and some 1 level under than that, but I still slept with a load of average birds too (no absolute munters like I sometimes used to but still below my standards).

My Kung Fu instructor said this to me tonight which I found very profound and relevant:

'You attract what you are'

Underneath it all I am still a needy drunk slag!

2012 my standards go up!

Isn't everyone?

Maybe your right actually. The last guy she slept I consider less attractive than me, but don't fancy her any less cos of it, but if my mate had been there first and still liked her I would have backed right off! Yep ok you're right - still very sensible New Years Resolution I think!

Snake Eyes - it seems that something from the PUA materials has you sucked in.

Specifically, the part about you sleeping with girl of X value (physical attractiveness) and its impact of your social value when fucking mutual acquaintances.

You could sleep with all the munters. It isn't going to affect your standing THAT much.

Point is, everyone will be saying how big your cock is. WIN

My cock is small

You still do a good job with the lack of equipment

is it also made of plastic?

Liking the Office Reference!

So I should have asked before - how would you guys handle this situation? After our brief kiss, we sort of argued about why we can/can't pull. Not good, not good at all, however I still have a few things going for me - think it was done in a humorous way, she was even more smashed than me so hopefully can't remember this part of the conversation and unless this killed it I'm pretty sure she is bang into me.

We had brief chat over e-mail this week, but nothing kept it quite tame. Made reference to her being drunk, but that's all chat about Saturday night I did.

I am feeling a bit needy towards her though, so I have limited contact!

Also, potentially have another date this week. Hopefully this will get me back in mojo hightened form if it goes well.

erm anybody (see above)? My plan is to cool it and flirt with other girls first - feeling needy! She came to me Saturday when I did this. She is so pretty reckon she's going to think same old if I'm chasing her!

Definitely be cool if you feel needy

Why do you "need" her

You can bang who you like