when she says, Where would you take me if i let you.

dont take that as a No... if she is responding, she clearly interested.

putting question marks n stuff. u already asked her out... dont keep asking

its difficult over a forum mate & its also not an overnight job, maybe at some point ill meet u & bestow some wisdom

I think you may have subcommunicated too much interest prior to seeing that much interest from her, meaning she has all the power in the interaction. You're firing her with questions, she's giving fairly short answers. You write 5 lines, she writes one. She's enjoying your attention, that's all.

Also, if she declines an offer to go out, and does not offer an alternative (especially two times), then I'd say you're being prick teased. She's fuelling her ego at your expense. A few weeks ago I asked a girl over to a little house party I was doing and she answered "te lo faccio sapere" (I'll tell you... as in "I'll tell you later") Needless to say I didn't bother trying again. Instead, I asked a girl for a drink last Sunday, and she said she couldn't but "am I free on thursday?" To me that says interest.

Sorry to say it, but I'm gonna answer "no". Or at least, she's not interested enough to make it worthwhile you going to all that trouble when you can find other girls that would love to reciprocate the dialogue (or semi monologue in this case).

That said, it looks like you've got fairly good skills, so go and put them to use on a more worthwhile target.