I had split up with an Ex several years ago when the apprentice I used to train/work with came in banging on about this book called the game, told me I had to read it.
I thought about it but it took me a year or so to actually actively walk into a shop and buy a copy. I read it, tried a few lines, the odd ones worked and yeah I could open girls but I soon found that it was techniques for America so I let it slip by the wayside.
A few more years of being single, I pick it up again and join here. Again I read some stuff but the overwhelming pressure to "go natural" scares me off.
Another 6 months and I am at crisis point with girls just not responding and even the odd question are you gay? So I get back on here and start working out. I watch RSD blueprint decoded and read shitloads of ebooks on everything from working out, cold reading, reading palms, programing computers. I start going out more to surf, socialize, etc. I approach more girls and just chat.
With the boost from losing weight and getting into shape, my increase in knowledge from reading and getting out/doing and the confidence boost from approaching and realising that women aren't scary, 3-4months down the line from my decent attempt at "
PUA" and I become a socially aware and interesting guy who recognizes his own value, portrays it in actions and essentially has fun with friends whilst managing t have several dates a week, regular sex with several FBs a week and feel contented.
Since I reached that point I have had ups-and-downs in mood but I have realised its more than pick up, it's self-value & worth, confidence in myself, control of myself and others and how being social actually works. It's effected my work life, my family life, my social life and my love-life in to many positive ways just becuase I wanted to get laid more
I thought I wanted to get laid, what I really wanted was to feel my own self-value