Oblivious to IOIs -
13-08-2009, 08:27 PM
hi guys,
I am having a bit of a sticking point at the moment that hopefully you can help me with again!!
I am fine with opening, approaching and chatting to girls etc, my problem seems to be that i never pick up on IOIs, I seem to just be blind to them.
I can walk in to a bar or be in a club and the mate i'm with will end up telling me "she just checked you out" and "she looked interested" but i never see this myself.
I can never seem to get eye contact for myself.
I want to be able to get the eye contact and smile and then approach but can't seem to create that. I would love to be able to do this as well just walking down the street!
Also when in a conversation i always miss them and it seems that the girl ends up asking for my number if shes interested or i end up blowing it out.
How do i wake myself up abit!!
Thanks
James
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