OK Guys, I require some help.

There’s this girl. I’ve known her for a few months and we get on so well. This isn’t a case on “Oneitis” because I have a girlfriend. anyway, this girl really clicks my buttons, and several of our friends have asked us both what is going on. Suffice to say nothing has actually happened, although we have both talked about it, and giving it the usual bumf i.e. “I have a lot to lose if anything happened” etc, but there have been occasions where you can just sense something needs to happen. I don’t know if I’m being a total pussy about the entire thing. I’m just unsure what to do, I have a few friends DHVing for me, every time we go out she always qualifies herself to me and if I’m out with my friends and she is out with hers (obviously when your out with your friends you spend more time focused on them than the girls) but she is always first to go Kino. The fact of the matter is when push comes to shove bugger all happens, and I need some advice on what I should do. For any of you out there who have read the game My best mate is a regular Dustin. His advice has been “Cut your ties, she’ll come back, get her next time”, but unfortunately I have fallen into the fatal trap of becoming a “friend” rather than anything else. Nevertheless she has still visited my house at least twice a week, just me and her for the last 6 weeks.

What is going on guys?

Your thoughts.

Cube

One thing that stands out to me is "I have a girlfriend".
What's going on with her? Does she know? Are you casual or is this a serious relationship?
I know PUA can be a bit macho but I love women and I respect them so my advice is to sort out what's going on with your girlfriend first. You want to leave women better off than when you found them.

Quite right. It's a long distance thing, the distance is a massive drag. The gf knows of the girl, but not quite to the extent of how close we are. Bit of a shitty situation really. Anyway at the risk of sounding like a massive hypocrite I wanted to be honest, so I told you guys I had a girlfriend. Nothing has happened between me and that girl, because I was merely wondering how, if any of you guys were in this situation how would you approach it?

I agree with Tom, either break up with your girlfriend or give it up with this other chick. Anyway, ignoring this girl for a while will make her like you more

Aye, well I have no intention of breaking up with my gf so case closed.

But I have been speaking to the other girl on and off over the last couple days, although ironically since my gf has been home (and will be until Sunday) she appears to be trying to freeze me out! Anyway, spoke to her yesterday and she's busy all week, however when I'm on my own again next week (and she knows it) she'll be "free to pop down for a catch up". What the frick?

Bare in mind all she wants is friendship... apparently.

Check out the Ladder Theory.

You have climbed the friendship ladder. If you try and climb across to the sex ladder you will fall and burn.
Unlike all men, women typically do not want to fuck their friends of the opposite sex. Coming on to her could well be a big surprise to her and you may risk destroying your friendship!

Possibly, although I have got skills. The last 2 girls I got with i was on the "friendship" ladder, got off it and hopped up the Good one. I'll just play this by here. And last night I went to hospital got some stitches. Instantly "Oh my god, are you ok?", "Anything I can do?"

This isn't over. Not yet.

Cube