Hi guys, looking for some help.


Went out with a girl for 16 months, we split up and then I refused to talk to her for months. She got a new boyfriend, but kept texting me, calling me, etc. But I wouldn't reply.

Eventually after a few months I replied and we had a normal kind of conversation. I have a new girlfriend now too, but it's not going too well, and the ex girlfriend knows that.

We spoke on the phone the other night and she said she still loves me and that she missed me. Also, she told me that she was afraid of being alone. I asked her if that's the reason she went out with her current boyfriend and she said it wasn't the only reason... but it clearly is a big reason.

So basically in a situation where I may try and go back out with her, but who knows.



We planned to meet today, but she couldn't. Here's the conversation.


Her: I'm not coming today, feel really ill. Sorry x
(she mentioned that she was ill the night before so kind of expected it).

Me: no worries

Her: Sorry, I wanted to, but feel bad x

Me: Not a problem

Her: I feel shit, and I've had to go out now, feel like I'm about to be sick.. X

Me: Probably that mcdonalds you ate off the floor
(inside joke)

Her: yeah probably, it was nice though x

Me: Ughhh, what tramps have you been hanging out with to get like this?
(don't know if this will work, but trying to imply that she's lower value since our split)

Her: sarah... lol x

Me: Haven't you two made up yet?

Her: lol no, she was slagging me off the other day behind my back, if I hadn't hurt my fingers then I would have knocked her out! x

Me: I don't even wanna know how you hurt your fingers... but I'm betting it involves your bed :|
(trying to make it sexual, don't think I needed the last part of the sentence, but it still worked)

Her: baseball. stop thinking about me fingering myself, or you'll have wet dreams tonight x

Me: Like the one you had last night? Or was that while you were still awake? :S

Her: I was talking to you, what do you expect




So clearly she's still into me.. but obviously I want more than talk. Any tips for this situation? Obviously I'll try and progress for another meet up soon.

Dont do it m8!!
I had the same thing with my ex wanting me back saying she loves me.I know it will just end up being the same as it was before!!
I still love her but i want to change and move on in my life,she says she does 2.But i know she will be on best behaviour and mean it,but sooner rather than later she will fall back 2 old habits and so will i and ill end up miserable and going nowhere again.
Unless you want to return to your life 16months ago with her,move on or stay friends nothing more.Its for the best even tho it sucks and is hard trust

In the nicest possible way and i speak from experiance. Try to imagine a catchy tune to the writtings below

Your being played, dum dum dum
You are a fool, dum dum dum
Be a man, dum dum dum
Don't be played, dum dum dum

But whatever i say it really doesnt matter because your going to follow that sucker of a heart you got, and them other things.... what they call them..... oh yea emotions and shit! So good luck but learn from this mistake your about to embark on!

"mr muscle, loves the jobs you hate"

AJay

it is a waste of time giving the right advice in love situations.... coz logic never outweighs love

unless you get emotional about the logic. ie SCREAM AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS!!!! IM BETTER THAN THIS

Some food for thought:
You and her split up for a reason.

She only wants you now because:
1)She can't have you
2)She's lonely
3)Probably some other fucked up emotional reasons

I have been in your situation. She wanted me back after 6 months of bullshit fucked up weirdness, I wanted her back, but I decided ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, FUCK THIS SHIT, I AM GOING TO GET HURT, END ALL CONTACT WITH HER

Best thing I ever fuckin did!

P.S Watch the best porn video you can find, watch it for as long as possible, jack off, blow your load, and then have a serious think about if you actually want your ex back. Mental clarity at its best.
FAP. Evaluate. FAP.

Women are primarily emotional creatures with both logical minds and emotional ones that’s why fucking them by distracting there logical mind (I can't we've only just met plea) is so easy.

Alpha D has made an excellent point.

A womans emotional state dictates what happens that day, maybe saturday she was feeling one of the following:

In this case it’s highly likely that you could have fucked her again, but why would you want to do that? I mean seriously for fucks sake??

I’m not going to tell you anything that hasn’t already been said, the only advice I would add is don’t watch porn, go out today and get yourself inside a pussy instead.

This is an excellent alternative to gain mental clarity and much better than wanking to porn..

Also, in his heartache of losing his one and only, all the girls are guna be uber sympathetic

"hey babe, you can rest on my shoulders (pussy) if you want"

Well I was going to say something constructive but i think we have a unanimous decision, so instead i will use it to promote my word of the day:

Asshat

I loved my me ex gf more than all the girls id ever felt anything for put together....times 100.

She dumped me, broke me, i moved on, she came back pregnant, wouldnt be reasonable about the baby, messed my head up, broke me again, now shes back with another ex whilst carrying MY child, & ive never been more fucked up in my life, & now i hate her.....times 100.

Do yourself a favour & dont go back to her.

I wish i never had to see my ex's face again.

hes more of an idiot for bein with a preggo girl with sumone elses kid!

id defo be askin serious questions me mate!