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GenePoole · 15-09-2011, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by chops147

it's a fair point one girl I'm just friends with she kept fucking me about so we're just friends now can't be arsed chasing her.

but you'd fuck her if she offered, right? = not just friends, you're an orbiter

Giant · 16-09-2011, 12:15 AM

Your mentality seems to be that if your friends with a girl you would fuck, you're only friends because you hope you'll get a chance. This is crap, it may be true for YOU, doesn't make it true for everyone else.
I've got friends I'd fuck, doesn't mean I'm trying to fuck them though.

Phil · 16-09-2011, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Giant

Your mentality seems to be that if your friends with a girl you would fuck, you're only friends because you hope you'll get a chance. This is crap, it may be true for YOU, doesn't make it true for everyone else.
I've got friends I'd fuck, doesn't mean I'm trying to fuck them though.

ye i have friends i would fuck who are female... but i dont wanna fuck!

Giant · 16-09-2011, 12:48 AM

That post wasn't really aimed at you Phil. It was directed at Genepoole/Genepool.

GenePoole · 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Giant

Your mentality seems to be that if your friends with a girl you would fuck, you're only friends because you hope you'll get a chance. This is crap, it may be true for YOU, doesn't make it true for everyone else.
I've got friends I'd fuck, doesn't mean I'm trying to fuck them though.

Well...my definition is that friends don't fuck each other. If they want to fuck then they are "lovers" or using each other for sex. At the point you have sex or want to have sex with them, the whole dynamic changes.

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Originally Posted by Phil

ye i have friends i would fuck who are female... but i dont wanna fuck!

How can you separate would fuck from don't want to fuck? If you would then you would if the opportunity came up. Maybe you don't actively follow but it's hardly a friend thing if you want to stick your cock in them.

As soon as I lose attraction for a girl, that's it, kick them out, never contact them again, do not be friends.

Phil · 16-09-2011, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by GenePoole

Well...my definition is that friends don't fuck each other. If they want to fuck then they are "lovers" or using each other for sex. At the point you have sex or want to have sex with them, the whole dynamic changes.

How can you separate would fuck from don't want to fuck? If you would then you would if the opportunity came up. Maybe you don't actively follow but it's hardly a friend thing if you want to stick your cock in them.

As soon as I lose attraction for a girl, that's it, kick them out, never contact them again, do not be friends.

i have a mate, she is proper sound.... she is fit... but i dont wanna fuck her coz it would ruin the dynamic of our relationship.

i have freinds who are girls who i dont fancy

there are girls who im freinds with who i do fancy... probably will fuck at some point.. but am not activly trying or assed either way, coz fucking girls isnt that important to me that it rules my soul.

its not clear cut, i used to think like u until i realised who i really am

Giant · 16-09-2011, 12:04 PM

So you don't have attractive or unattractive female friends. You're trying to fuck the attractive ones (thereby making them objects of sexual frustration), and don't want to be friends with the unattractive ones?

Look I'm not friends with all of my ex's, but I'd be a shame to not talk to someone because we happened to have sex. The only reason not to be friends is if that friendship hurts, basically if you feel the pain of the "loss"

Phil · 16-09-2011, 02:00 PM

Gene pool... do you have any female friends u havent fucked yet??

daleinthedark · 16-09-2011, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Phil

Gene pool... do you have any ~~female~~ friends ~~u havent fucked yet~~??

is this more appropriate?

16-09-2011, 03:59 PM

This is BULLSHIT! And you know what Genepoole, everything you are saying, a FEMALE FRIEND OF MINE (she's not attractive, I'm not trying to fuck her and we're friends, get over it) said it all to me the other day. She was saying that friends who fuck aren't friends. This is bullshit!

Two words for you. Limiting, Beliefs

Each to their own viewpoint I guess, but hey ho..

P.S HAVING SEX AS FRIENDS IS NOT USING EACH OTHER, IT IS ENJOYING EACH OTHER