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Default what do you think women look for in a LTR? - 11-09-2011, 04:02 PM

What exactly do women look for in a LTR?
IMO, it's usually summed up by the nice guy attitude and as long as they feel safe with them (plus all the other humour, attraction). But there seem to be an awful lot of people in the UK, girls especially who are married to "nice guy" types. Obviously they're not that frustrated as they found a girl they like but these men probably settled for the one of the first few girls they found they got along with - I have a lot of mates for example who married their 2nd or 3rd girlfriends.
So, if women are really after the strong playboy type person, why do so many settle for the nice guy types?
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Default 11-09-2011, 04:29 PM

In my opinion the nice guy type is a great provider gives her what she wants/needs basically runs round after her.I have found tho like myself,if ur overly nice shes probably cheated/cheating on you!!
As for what they want in an LTR,companionship,friendship and to feel safe?!
It depends different people look for different things in relationships.


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Default 11-09-2011, 05:52 PM

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I have found tho like myself,if ur overly nice shes probably cheated/cheating on you!!
I think this really depends on the girl, you can usually tell the trustworthy type. I don't think it's a great way to have an outlook on life to expect every girl to cheat on you...it depends what you class as overly nice.
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Default 11-09-2011, 06:19 PM

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I think this really depends on the girl, you can usually tell the trustworthy type.
no u cant, every girl i meet says i wouldnt be able to be faithfull & all say about my mate

"ah you can tell he would never cheat"

i dont

and with his last GF this guy fucked 2 girls in a hotel they stayed in whilst she was in bed on holiday.

people who cheat are insecure, need outside sources of validation. Also people wont cheat on people they respect.


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Default 11-09-2011, 06:33 PM

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I think this really depends on the girl, you can usually tell the trustworthy type. I don't think it's a great way to have an outlook on life to expect every girl to cheat on you...it depends what you class as overly nice.
I didnt mean every girl.I was with my ex for 3yrs and i know she never cheated on me because herself esteem is so low she worshipped/worships the ground i walk on even tho self addmittedly i am a chode!!
I just meant in general as i and friends have experienced,if ur a total door matt to women ie buy them everything,write them poetry be a total chode.Needing her to provide you with your own value.Chances are she will leave you or cheat on you!!
Maybe its a negative view point but if youve been burnt enough times it makes you reluctant to trust women your dating full stop.


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Default 11-09-2011, 06:44 PM

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..need outside sources of validation.
Isn't that half of what pick up is about?

...building self esteem through validation?
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Default 11-09-2011, 07:35 PM

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Isn't that half of what pick up is about?

...building self esteem through validation?
no. Pua is about idiots & money.

if you need validation. Then your doing life wrong


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Default 11-09-2011, 07:46 PM

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no. Pua is about idiots & money.

if you need validation. Then your doing life wrong
Better rename this forum then...unless you're here for the money.
Most sexual encounters are about validation of some kind plus attraction, people wouldn't brag about shagging girls otherwise.

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Default 11-09-2011, 07:46 PM

if you could tell the type of girl that does or doesn't cheat you would be paid millions to showcase your skill.

the only way you can be 100% sure is when she cheats and you find out.


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Default 11-09-2011, 07:57 PM

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Better rename this forum then...unless you're here for the money.
Most sexual encounters are about validation of some kind plus attraction, people wouldn't brag about shagging girls otherwise.
i stoped shaggin girls so i can brag to my mates a LOOOOONG time ago.

i fuck women i like. Thats It.

if u think getting women is about bein able to brag and MAYBE a bit of attraction, u seriously need to re think ur lifes meaning.

tonight, i want you to have a really good long look at urself & ask why u said that.

ur life isnt ur own if you live it for others


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