Hey lads,

I'm meeting this girl tomorrow for a coffee. We've known each other a while, and I've seen her once or twice in the last couple of weeks. She seems to like me, keeps giving me IOIs and is keen to meet up. Thing is, she's a bit of a tease and I can never be sure whether she's really up for it, so I need some advice on escalating it.

Keep it real
Blanca

Well best tips I can give are:
1) Be cool, be fun and be interesting. Show her shes lucky to have you to herself for a while(Not explicitely, explain other plans).
2) Take chances but dont be too forward unless she signals it. Take 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
3) Don't be too easy - she has to earn your interest just like you have to earn her.
4) Don't stay in the same place for too long, take her somewhere where she's comfortable yet still interesting.
5) Remember you're the man!

Hope this helps buddy, let me know how it goes