Jaz is spot on.

A bit of rough is what these girls want- but NOT chav. We're talking: rugged, outdoors type; proper manual work etc. If you're a farm labourer, you're in.

Going to a party with one of these is a big mistake: there will no doubt be lots of "chaps" who went to public school. Even though you can out-sarge most of them, the sheer number of them means that as the novelty "bit of rough" you will, actually, be looked down upon right from the start. Your game would have to be really, really tight to cut it at one of these functions.

In London, try any of the bars on the Kings Road. Anywhere near a rowing club on the Thames, any Saturday through most of the year. Wimbledon in the summer. Anywhere near a horse racing venue when there's an event on.

For posh totty under the age of 30, the best place to find these girls is out in little market towns in the 'burbs around Christmas, when they all go back and visit their mummies and daddies. Tunbridge Wells; Ely; Market Harborough; Northallerton... just check the pages of Country Life or Savills UK | Home to find your nearest PCT (Posh Chick Town).

I personally LOVE posh girls- the more horsey, public school, jolly-hockeysticks the better. When I was 16 I snogged Princess Victoria of Sweden (I say snogged, because that's what we did back then- I don't really count it as sarging her because (A) we were both pished; (B) I didn't know what PU was at the time).

Another good place is to wander around country shows- like the Blair Atholl Horse Trials, Burleigh Horse Trials or anything else that associates itself with 3 day eventing and other country sports.

University towns: Exeter; Oxford (but only where the Brookes students hang out); St Andrews; Durham; Bath.

Good luck. Posh girls are proper fucking dirty- that's what comes of going to a girls boarding school for the first 18 years of your life.

Some general thoughts:

For me what’s worked with these is getting them to remember the person they were prior to their marriage. Getting them to reconnect with their supressed sense of adventure. Get them to remember their school days and sexual awakening, give them a license to be playful and silly again and remember how fun it is.

Make her feel like she’s 16 again and she’ll start acting like it. Consider topics like Adventure vs Security and get her to think in terms of rejecting the latter in favour of the former. Plant kisses on her forehead when she makes a funny, hold and touch her assertively should the chance to do so present itself naturally during a story you are telling.

The dynamic you want to strive to create is one where she feels like she's 16 again and feels like you are the 20-something with the big dick that gave her here first proper seeing to back in 1982 (IMO). Avoid making her feel like 'couger' 'milf' etc. Avoid making her feel predatory towards you or like a cradle snatcher.

Plant the idea in her mind that she should be selfish, that her sexual appetite DESERVES to be fed (by you).

Don’t mention her age. Ever. Don’t mention yours. Level the playing field by avoiding topics that lower your value/status or lack of experience on your part.

Talk to them about what they ‘want’ in life. Get them to consider the gap between what they 'wanted' in their youth and what they’ve gotten out of their current married adult life they have now. About what they thought would make them happy. Don’t pay for anything, don’t try and ‘hang’ with her about the posh crap (unless you actually can).

Get her thinking about the difference between 'things' and 'experiences', talk to her about travel and the value of expeirences that you can't put a price tag on...(like the grunting animal fuck you are gonna give her later...).

Talk to her about YOUR world, your experiences. Do it in a way that makes the differences appealing and seductive to her. Suggest places she should travel to, 'priceless' experiences she should open herself to and experience 'while there's time'. Like she’s being invited to spend time with someone from a different world in which the oppressive rules of her silly posh circle don’t apply.

Make her aware that 'the clock is ticking' in the subtext of what you say.

Demonstate value by showing your knowledge in areas such as dieting, nutrition and fitness, drip feed her advice and knowledge in these areas in a way to put her in submissive position of being a student taking instruction from you, seeking validation and tips from you. If she starts to think hanging around with you will help her sustain her youth (beauty) for longer it’ll stand you in good stead.

Neg her by way of off hand assumptions, ‘You probably never knew a person that did xxx but my friend…’ or ‘you problably don’t move in circles with where xxx happens...blah blah’.

If she wants to give you IOI’s and play ball she’ll likely do it by telling you that ‘you’d be surprised’. Challenge her by suggesting you don’t believe there is a saucy minx behind the respectable façade she puts up and get her itching to ‘prove you wrong’.

Get to her start telling stories about her naughty past, get her to remember them and want to relive them.

If she’s a trophy wife chances are her husband WON’T dominant her, so make sure put out all the signs that you can/will. Because remember...you aren't from her silly little world and her rules and status don't mean shit to you.

The truth is picking up these kinda women on nights out in bars can be pretty expensive and hard work espeacially if you are part of a wolf pack of decent looking younger men. They might happy to have you sit with them and validated them for hours on end but will break off and step back the second you try to put your foot down or change gears. And if you open other sets of younger women you’ll become likely to lose the older one’s rather than make them want you want you more. They might take your number but then totally ignore you after. With the old posh birds the sexual attraction might be there but your direct approaches might meet with resistance because she won’t want to openly court the group’s disapproval by doing anything other than acknowledging and enjoying the attention that’s been directed at her.

Consider that if she really is a bit of a stuck up older bird the last thing she wants to do is become the talk of her small circle by slutting off with some young buck right in front of them…it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to or won’t but just that you need little tact.

Day game is a good way to go with these. Shops like Selfridges and Harvey Nics…just ask them for an opinion on what ever you are buying so it’s not a direct PLAY for her. Use the topic as a means to demonstate your value and your interesting perspectives and understanding. Don’t assume that she’ll be flattered by a direct approach, if she’s married she’ll value tact a great deal so show it up front.

Watch Notes of A Scandal and try to understand the motivations minde set and values of the Cate Blancett character.

Also start going to salsa classes.

Just some ideas. Hope they help.