1: not in this situation

2: if you talking to them ruins their night then you're either not interesting enough or they are cunts and no one wants to be their friend anyway.

3: what's with the ownership all this their. I don't own my friends so if other people want to talk to them and they don't mind neither do I.

as for their night out. if you don't want to be bothered by strangers have a private party. the whole purpose of a pub is that it is public.

4: if someone wants to talk to me that is not rude in any way shape or form the only people who think this is wrong are people who think that they are superior to the general public and as such these people are cunts.

so basically, she came over & negged you....

so does that mean we are all cock-blockin any lad in the group who was previously tryin it on??

cockblockartistry

Many people go out with the intention of enjoying themselves together with just their friends, girls especially. It's necessary to understand this sometimes.

The public argument is silly, if you go to a restaurant with a bunch of friends you will be taken aback if someone strolls on up and sits at your table and makes themselves a part of your night.

What's in your spectrum of a night out isn't necessarily what's in the spectrum of other people's. Perspective and personal view matters a great deal. If you're intruding that's not cool, if you're not intruding then that's ok.

When you look at it from that mindset they are merely defending against your intrusive behaviour and you are following up with a very rude personal attack.

One perspective is not the only perspective.

once again RLAjay you are very good at this.

I guess that's why it works well when you talk then move away that way you're not intruding as bad.

I still think peeps are way too uptight and should have a more open attitude towards peeps they don't know.

I heard in London the pubs are supposed to be really friendly where you're made welcome as soon as you enter.

I know if i were out with my friends and some social inadequate chick trolled up with a big mouth giving us the cube, me and my friends would be like 'how about you fuck off'

It just depends man. We generally have a habit of believing that our own worldview is the only right worldview and everyone around us doing it differently must have something wrong with them. This actually isn't the case most of the time and it's only in the last year or so that I've started noticing this so it's kind of new to me too. When you start building these different perspectives you start seeing things entirely different opposed to a "something is clearly wrong with them" view.

It started with the realisation that women getting fucked is the same kind of compromising and vulnerable position that strikes fear into the hearts of millions of mildly homophobic men, which I mentioned here not long ago.

Seeing other perspectives properly, or at least seeing the potential that a situation is merely a different but perfectly acceptable perspective makes me think twice about right and wrongs in various situations. Not long ago I'd have been right behind the "tell her to fuck off" camp... It's situational and reacting that way is actually pretty dickish if she's coming from the intrusive mindset - even if her cute friend is accepting you. It was their night out until the intrusion.

Chops, where did this comment come from? I'm intrigued! Is this Sarcasm by Chops?


Further to your comment, the streets of London are paved with gold, and pussy on every corner!

If I was to do a mildy-less-sarcastic nightlife comparison of London v Cardiff, would SPECULATE that whilst both cities have some rough clubs full of loud-mouthed rough ugly birds, there is overall a more cosmopolitan, quality crowd in London than in Cardiff. Therefore, avoid Cardiff's roughest clubs and go to ones that charge a lot. The poor ugly loud-mouthed fatties will get weeded out as won't have the money to get in there. :)

Or, move to London - it's ace here! (Streets of London are paved with gold, and pussy on every corner!)

a Londoner told me.

...well it must be true then!


This particular Londoner has just told you that "Streets of London are paved with gold, and pussy on every corner!", so that must be true by your deduction as well

fuck off. I never said it was 100% true. you pointless cunt.