Hey Guys

A fair few times my voice in nightclubs has been a real problem and it is definitely holding me back, this was a big problem when I was in Tiger Tiger on Monday night. I’ve been listening to an audio of Tyler Durden and his voice projects a lot and I doubt he has problems speaking in loud venues. Thing is during the day I’ve been told a few times in the past I’m too loud and think this has an effect on me.

Has anyone on here had this issue, if so how did you over it ??

Any tips are appreciated.

Cheers

this is one of the main annoying thing about clubs. trouble is you don't want to lean in. I usually say something load and if they can't hear repeat until they lean in.

also body language.

the smoking area can be good but if you don't smoke it's weird being there unless with a smoking friend. Plus if you don't smoke the smokers breath can be a right turn off.

if its too loud, just lean in, then bite her on the shoulder, then smile at her! ur either getting fucked off, or she is urs

Yes lots of issues, it can be a real problem I remember it well. I used to avoid some clubs simply becuase they were unworkable. So my first tip is try different clubs.

Check out every where in the club, I'd been going to this club 4 or 5 times before I realised it had an upstairs seated chill out area very quiet, okay so seated area's present a different set of problems but the point is all clubs will have quiet areas, have wander round, areas near the entrance tend to be quieter.

I tend to talk quiet so I used a few improve your voice techniques I downloaded I'm not going to reference the material. I'd check out the good stuff on amazon then see if you can torrent it and fuck the anti -pirate and gay members on here. Vocal training does work, also the more confident you get the louder you become.

Smoking areas are good advice (I did this a lot, even as a non-smoker), problem is if she goes in and goes into a noisy area, your back to square one.

Finally, don't bite her shoulder, for fuck sake she'll think you're a creep or have fucking vampire fetish

please dont tell him not too... he may aswell try it, showing women your sexual & upfront is better than not sayin nothin at all.

this type of shit WORKS, not every time... but enuf to do it rather than nothin

True you got me there, better the risk of a slap in the face than going home to wank.

Don't try and talk in loud clubs

They're there for dancing in - so dance

Hang out in the smoking area if you wanna talk - make sure you talk, its cool

Speak LOUD and CLEAR and SLOW - learn good posture

Don't lean in - if they can't hear you signal to them to come closer using your hand

I hate trying to have a conversation in night clubs BUT I love to bogey.....!

As Zed says use your body to talk! Throw some shapes, have some fun and they should come running!

Alternatively if you want to speak, take some singing lessons or look them up online - really helps with voice projection, using the diaphram to talk.

hook their interest
due to noise close body contact/kino is acceptable from the get go
great and valid option to say 'shall we go somwhere quieter' - venue change

its not all bad!