Hi, there's a chic on POF that I am chatting with..

My message was flirty and funny and she replied:

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Her reply:


hey I'm good you? I love festivals and gigs. I don't really have a favourite band but I love
rhianna beyonce prodigy etc I love all kinds of music to be honest!
I also shop a lot lol I mean you always have to look good ya know
I love to be in control so dominant xx



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Considering that she wants an intimate encounter I intend sending her this message:

Hmm,... So, I see we have quite a few things in common like music and gigs.. I think that's absolutely cool..

How am I sure that you are not a 'naughty' guy or a computer sending these messages?

So, why don't you have your picture here? xx

(I believe it's better to build the chemistry before I get her number and we decide to hook up?)

Advice/suggestions are welcome..

1Luv!

I don't like the first line, you seem to be qualifying yourself to her, at best its merely stating the obvious.

Also with the reference to being dominant, shes set a sexual tone, which you now have to build on. But ramp it up gradually, you have to convey sexual confidence without comming over to pervy.

Something like "Great, but before we take turns hand cuffing and whipping each other I need to be sure your not some sad old bloke grooming me, so how about a pic or two :-)"

Mate,

You shouldnt even be entertaining her if she didnt have a picture posted. I always wary about profile without a picture. If she's hot, do you really think she would have 2nd thought about posting her picture. Maybe not what you want to hear. Fuck it, just fire that message. If she turns out to be hot, then you onto a winner with that first message being dominant. No need gaming, just tell her you want to bang her and you want to meet....!
p.s. You in the wrong section. It should be in the general chat and you will probably get more advice.

Once upon a time i scoured POF for intimate encounter people, one chick i met up with who didnt have a picture on there was above average and was into cuckholding -- i didnt know what it was at the time -- but she was married and has her husbands permission to fuck other guys, in her case she was allowed to do this as long as she either videoed it or took pictures
so she came round to mine--- txted her husband that i was coola nd she was safe--then i nailed her all over my house, made her squirt all over my living room carpet and on the stairs on the way to my room, and we took loads of pictures.
good laugh -- in fact im gonna txt her now im thinking about it.

you dont need to scour intimate encounters to find chicks that just want to fuck on POF-- most of them on there can be lead into fucks on the first date
ive nailed a LOT of girls on POF

there is a reason for everything

1 She is a monster -- size 20 sweat machine
2 She is a man -to be honest a man is more likely to post a fit birds pic up
3 she has a husband
4 she is mortally wounded at the idea of friends finding out she is on pof
5 generally a bit weird
6 she is incompetent at getting pictures of her on a computer

i think ive had all 6 of those at some point or another.

** Sapphire - Thanks. I sent a message a bit similar to yours but it was cool.. I
didn't get a reply from here and I sent the mail..

** Legend - I agree with you about the pic but I felt, hey! What do I have to lose..

** Reflex - Nice.. Let's see how this one goes.. There's plenty of fish as they say..

** Jaz - No doubt!