Scamp, I like your thinking, experience breeds confidence and also a sense if deservedness.

Other than playing snooker, what exercises do you do? What things should you perhaps eat? What is the stuff you enjoy, what does having an attractive lifestyle involve exactly?

Everywhere you go there are women so that's not a issue. I'd ask what kind of places but you would only say fucking deansgate locks.

This isn't about getting the girl, this about getting the skill. This isn't about impressing anyone. This is about what things you can do to get to the next level.

No methods or theory just actions and outcomes.

Exercises (don't actually play pool very much) - Go to the gym 2-4 times a week, Play cricket once a week, Work part time on my folks farm. All these things keep me in reasonable shape. Although I'm sure a tonne of guys on here can recommend gym routines etc, I find this keeps me in shape, is enjoyable and has stopped turning me into a "gym bunny"

Am the wrong person to ask about diet, again more experienced ppl on here than me to offer advice. Essentially I try and eat a rounded diet, avoid too much shit, we all knwo what we shouldn't eat, but occasionally it's fine I reckon.


To me, an attractive lifestyle is doing the stuff I enjoy (Cricket, going out with mates, playing my guitar, going to gigs, dressing sharp etc etc) and also not being afraid to try new shit that sometimes scares me. eg. going on a dating tv programme, all my mates are like

"this is going to be fucking humiliating!"

Part of me thinks that too, not going to lie, but another part feels quite charged up by that fear the "fuck it" effect.

We shall not cease from our exploration
And at the end of all our exploring
Will be to arrive where we started
And know the place for the first time

-TS Eliot

PS

I am not sure if you can call it skills. I think with time and experience, you know what to say and what to do in specific situations. It comes naturally. Not saying you get pussy in abundance but enough to keep your balls warm with decent pussy!
Anyway, to have in abundance, you need looks or money or celebrity status. Adam's two examples are prime example of what good looks can do.

Yes people who have that do abundance. Give me some ways of getting there. how can you improve your looks, how can you be considered a celebrity to the people you meet?

If this isn't a skill then give me some actions you can do to improve yourself.

How can you liberate yourself from the judgements of others?

If a person cared what people thought of them what would they have to do be q person who doesn't care?

sexual abundance is bullshit and a fake goal to attain, you will be as empty in life when you start as when you finish.

Ive fucked a lot of girls and everytime i finish, i feel like a part of me has just died inside

Do somthing special with your life, make a difference to somone elses, knowone on here is a good example of a good fucking human being, myself included

You would have to be completely unashamed of your intentions and desires, and be completely unashamed in the pursuit of your goal. I don't believe that this is something that can be learnt.

[quote=scamp;45464]My Answer = Complete Sexual confidence

Have been thinking about this a bit and if you just know that you are going to absolutely rinse it and that you can give absolutely any girl the most amazing time of her life.

Are you going to get AA?
Are you going to give a shit if you get rejected?
Is any girl going to be out of your league?
Will you give a fuck?
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My sexual confidence is 100% and I can tell you it doesn't necessarily fix all the other stuff.