summer game

[beacher]

hi guys, this is my first post so i hope i trigger some mindblowin ideas

i'll cut to it:

in 2 weeks i move to the seaside () to work for the summer, and i thought i'd take advantage of the opportunity and use it to get the basics (at least) to the game.

here's my situation:
i dont know anyone there, so i'll be solo sarging most of the time, im not the most confident of people (working on it), I freeze up sometimes when i cant think what to say, and it usually goes downhill from there. i can speak fluent spanish, could i use this in any way?

I would really appreciate any advice on where i could start, maybe methods i could try, any ideas that would benefit my 2 months on the beach

if you need to know anything else let me know i'll fill u in
thanks for reading hope i haven't bored you

peace xx

[sykosi]

Originally Posted by beacher

i dont know anyone there, so i'll be solo sarging most of the time, im not the most confident of people (working on it), I freeze up sometimes when i cant think what to say, and it usually goes downhill from there. i can speak fluent spanish, could i use this in any way?

Hi Beacher, I also find myself struggling to keep an convo going after I open. In those cases I usually bail out. I recently read about the Gunwitch Method and one thing I learned from that is to "make the ho say no". Basically you hang in there and persist past those awkward silences and embarrassing cockups until she either goes with you / give u her number or tells you to piss off / runs away from you. This will allow more opportunity for rapport to set in. I should say that I've yet to put all this into practice myself.

With your Spanish language skills you obviously will have an advantage with Spanish women. With non-Spanish women you can maybe uses it as an opener / dhv or something...I'm a noob myself but perhaps some PUAs can offer more specific advice.

[Tom]

Just a thought but you could pretend to be Spanish and ask a question in broken english mixed with Spanish then reveal you're not actually Spanish you just wanted a reason to talk to her and make a joke out of it.

[beacher]

haha yeah ive thought of that but never really had the balls to try it, spose now's the time! i'll try it, and let you know how it goes...

and ive just read through all the gunwitch methods and it all makes sense in a weird way xD s'all good if it helps

peace