Need some quick advice on closing. Basically I've just been away on holiday on a snowboarding trip with snowboarding soc from uni and have become infatuated with this french girl who came along. I knew her before and there was always heaps of chemistry between us but she had a long distance bf that she was faithful to. So the whole trip despite this constant chemistry I didn't try and close, partly cos she was in a relationship and also there were a ridiculous number of obstacles in the form of snowboard pros and rowdy chalet workers.

Anyways I got back and found out that she'd been broken up with her bf for a few weeks now and can't believe I didn't try and close! There's one more snowboard society social before uni ends and she goes back to france and I need advice on how to close. Will the fact that I haven't tried yet have ruined my chances? Also I feel like I've developed a serious case of one-itis and until I at least try and close this girl I know I'll seriously regret it.

Cheers for any advice guys

dont waste time
Get her number off somone
contact her

You only live once

What Reflex said. Get her number, ask her out to do something fun. Something might come of it, nothing might come of it. You'll never know unless you get stuck in.

If you don't someone else will. You can be assured of that.

Dont try to close her, just let your instinct guide you. You dont want to feel like your walking on eggs shells. No stratergy No fear, just go with the flow. Your the cool one remember!

AJay

Go seek her out.

Find out where she'll be and just be straight, be direct.

Burst into one of her lectures singing Righteous Brothers Top-Gun stylee. (That would be so fly)

Just don't wait til the next snowboarding club event, because between now and then she could have been asked out a hundred times. In fact, if she is really everything you say she is, then I guarantee that she has already been asked out many many times.

Much love,

Craigus

Can't thank you guys enough for the moral support!! I got her number off a friend, txted her and got the response I was hoping for - we're goin on a date tommorrow boom!!

The force is strong with this one

Hmmmmm help you we will Hmmmmmmmmm

OK so it wasn't as easy as I thought cos she gone and flaked on me! Here's the txt convo (realise now I probably shoulda rang her) its a bit long but I'm proper confused with this girl. Also when I call myself mr president its not kinky lol I'm the pres of the snowboarding soc. Be brutally honest bout my txt game too pls guys

Me: Salut alice! Mr president here, though u were probably missin me already so wondered if you wanted to have a lil break from studying and go chill in hyde park for a bit? C'est une belle journee =)

Her: Haha coucou toi! I don't start to work yet and I was suppose to go to the library now! You r the devil. Where r u and with who? =)

Me: Haha yeh I haven't started work yet either but its too nice outside =) just chillin at home with a mate but hes goin home to work so just me! U comin from hyde park?

Her: Grr I know its such a good day but I cant now because I really need to work but if u want we can get a coffee this week =)

Me: Haha ok you workaholic =P i'm free tomoro afternoon i'll give you a txt and we'll go boire du cafe? =)

Her: Ok parfait! And im not a workaholic, trust me! Bonne apres midi. Xx

(next day)

Me: Saluuuut! Ca va? I'm finished playing doctor for the day so whenever ur busy self is free lets go grab that coffee =) x

Her: Haha! I hate u =( Im just going to the library and i didnt start my essay yet! I am just a crappy worker! it sounds complicated for me today but i promise u a cofee this week =) if u want for sure

Me: Haha! Lazy alice =P i'm gonna be around uni later round 3 anyway and I know ur gonna need a break so I'm gonna steal 15 min of ur time!!

Her: Mmh ok =)

Me: Yooo dude breaktime?! Terrace in like 15 min? =)

Her: I just had one!!

Me: Have another one =P

Her: If u write my essay yes!

Me: Haha nah can't be bothered. Je ne parle anglais!

Her: Je ne parle pas anglais! And i cant be bothered to write my essay with your bad influence!

Me: Leavin uni now last chance!

Her: I cant mr president...


Like i sed theres a lotta chemistry between us in person but these txts confuse me a bit! Am I fretting a bit too much about this? Need to get this french girl outta my head or just get with her!!

Cheers again for advice guys

Nothing wrong with the texts so don't be confused. You prob should have organised it for when she wasn't busy mate instead of trying to squeeze it in when she's told you she's busy.

Just ring her and give her a couple of options on days when your free to go out, then go for it!