hahaha load in the eye

I don't agree with that, you want a win win situation that's not chode

Originally Posted by DaFreak
Never care whether she has orgasm or not. If you do, you're chaud

That's the equivalent of saying, being lazy in bed with a girl makes you a real man. As far as I can see that would just make you a typical chump who struggles between the sheets... like a lot of men do if surveys of women orgasming are to be believed.

Good point Nova if your shit in bed then she's not gonna want to sleep with you again and she'll tell her friends how shit you were then they won't sleep with you either.
However if the you are good then she'll want to again and again, and she'll tell her friends how good you are and they'll want to as well.

I think I have seriously failed if she doeesnt reach orgasm...! Dont think I have that failure so far though, oh on 2nd thought, maybe once hahaha!

Yeah I disagree aswell. The way I see it is;

Its going to take longer to get her off so longer sex in total.
More in control in getter her off so more in control of whatever you like to do next.
What girl says no to something after you've made her cum multiple times?
Ego boost, your a guy that she may very well brag to her friends about later about being shit hot in bed.
You can both relax after in the full glow of sexual satisfaction.

I reckon she'll be more thankfull of the orgasms than the load in the face, but if you want her to be thankfull about that then frame it as "I love to do this, but you wont get it so you cant have it, sorry. maybe if you were a bit free minded I could give you that"

Try it

Spot on roody....! It wasnt a load in the face, but in this instance it was a load straight in her mouth, sealed by her lips and she was swallowing it...!!! In her own words "I love the taste of it"