Christ alive. People are scarred of interactions with strangers. Flirting behind their monitors alongside a diluted sexual directness via their constructed texts. How can that be satisfying?

Phil i need to foster this state, this is my next level of training

My fails......
Fail1: on the date - have no fear in making moves on somone and used to always go for the fuck
analysis: I am giving the dangleing thing straight to the cat who therfore loases interest

Fail2: after the date with txts - i tend to txt back straight away, i tend to continue the fact that i like them and cant wait to see them again
analysis: again i am no challenge there is no doubt in her mind that she has me


How do i fix this?

1st date, cut it short, by 30 mins...

look i need to be up tomorow, shall we continue this another time

dont text for 2 days after... give them space


when u text make sure its somethin that makes them smile,(funny) if a text makes a girl smile u have her

dont make arangements to see them for at least a few days

if they ask you out say, ye id like that, ill let u know when im free.

never give surity, never make fixed times on their say so, only yours....

i used to be so good at these games, i stoped them recently! coz its hard work.... but summer is here now so lets get it started.

u can come to liverpool soon anyways