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Originally Posted by fenix_3
So what makes for a good 'natural' approach?
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Read Natural Flawless and Blue Print Decoded. It will help you leaps and bounds. I still believe that canned materials have its place for those who just starting out, overcoming AA, etc. But "natural" approach is just a positive and effective progression as you move on.
For example:
The 3-second rule is good when you suffer with AA and not coming out with gazillion excuses why you shouldnt approach And it doesnt give you time to evaluate the girl and her surroudings but you have already armed yourself with stakes of canned openers, ready for "battle".
With Natural Approach, I observe the girl I really like, her situations, her surroundings, her friends etc and I can more often than not within minutes, can come up with something to talk about i.e. "What's the occassions?, What you drinking?, Is this where the party is?, etc etc. Being interesting helps the conversation flows from then on..!